without attachments life is better
to think that something that is part of me, of my daily life, something significant and important will no longer be there, is a hard blow to the emotions.
If that something, are material things, can be replaced, however, there is always a sentimental value, a hidden value that will leave a bitter taste and sadness for the loss.
If what is lost is a friend, a love, a loved one, it is something irreparable, the memories remain, the absence hurts, the mental images or photographs of the experience remain.
On the other hand, to lose a part of the body is unimaginable, to think which part of the body is more important and how it would be if we lost it one day, wow is something stormy, but as adaptable beings, with time we can find a way to be functional, although I think the biggest fear in that case would be to depend on others.
This weekend @galenkp proposals are super interesting and intended to make me think, as always, so in a few lines I will try to describe the loss of the three objects that I currently appreciate and could not go on without them.
First of all there is "Bagozzi", this particular name I gave to a little stuffed dog that accompanies me every night to sleep, as well as it accompanies me in my nights of writing in Hive.
I hug him and he holds me when I need him, he knows my dreams, my desires, my pains and dries my tears, he is my faithful friend.
If he wasn't in my bed like every night, I would miss hugging him a lot, at night when I wake up without him in my arms, I look for him all over the bed until I get him and go back to sleep, hahahaha what a thing.
It would be hard to sleep without him, but eventually if I lost him I would look for a replacement, I hope it would be a man of flesh and blood hahahaha.
Secondly, it would be my basic facilitator, my sewing machine, where I make so many projects, where I spend a whole afternoon without a computer or cell phone. it is my work and leisure tool. without it I would be lost, what would I do in my evenings at home, how would I make my projects come true, I would be very anxious, I would start eating and get fat, or I would become an internet zombie. or even worse, I would go crazy with my thoughts about the future. my sewing machine gives me a unique time with myself, besides helping me to have money.
Third and last, losing my pencil case and my notebook, where I write down my projects, ideas, thoughts, emotions. I always have pencils, crayons and a notebook in my bag, there is always an idea to write down so it doesn't get lost, without that, maybe I would talk more, others would know what I think, and they wouldn't just stay in the notebook, a pencil and a sheet are an outlet, without them I would paint on the wall, I would feel naked.
definitely many things are an important part of my days, to lose them would make me feel uncomfortable, something would be missing, it would be hard to replace in some cases the sentimental value but I am sure that something will occur to me so that their loss does not affect my day.
on the other hand, responding to the no hive, well I have a year on Hive and I have been hooked on this weekend community, I curiously wait for every topic of the week to appear, I like interacting with the members of this community, meeting new people, I have received good rewards here and have won prizes. Yippee, without this community, I would feel sad, no doubt I would look for another one where I could find what I have here or more, but it would be a pitiful loss.
Attachments, are not good.... everything has a moment in life, you have to enjoy it while it lasts. everything has a purpose in life, to learn from what we like and what we don't like.
thank you for the opportunity to present my three objects, which will undoubtedly leave me lost.
thank you for reading me and for joining me here, see you in my next idea.
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