A controversial topic full of taboos is masturbation, a normal human behavior that is present in many people's lives. The act generally occurs confidentially, since part of society uses moral concepts to judge and incriminate such an situation.
When people reach a certain point in their lives, they begin to feel desire for people of interest to them, this situation causes desires and feelings of pleasure to create a moment of self-knowledge, generally initiated by touching intimate parts, generating moments of pleasure through self-exploration, touch in sensitive points and the emergence of sexual desire.
Sex in general has become a form of commerce, where traders produce "products and toys" that bring satisfaction to their owners. toys that replace human presence. The act of personal pleasure stops being just with the body and starts to have "items" that replace human touch.
Masturbation can occur in several ways: individually, between two individuals and even with three or more people, it is something very private and specific. The feeling of insecurity can be a trigger for a relationship with oneself, just as there are people who only feel pleasure when touched by others.
In my case, I was very well guided by my parents, just like any “normal” young person, I had my moments of self-knowledge with my body and I learned to deal with my emotions and desires. Currently, it's not something I do, since I have a very healthy life in relation to the subject, in short, I'm married.
Desiring self-pleasure is something that appears in practically everyone's life over time. You are alone in a closed place, thinking about the person you want and starting your moments of pleasure can be an excellent comfort, but there is a limit to everything, reality goes beyond thoughts and moments of pleasure, you need to learn to deal with your sexual desires. "Self exploration of your body, don't make it an addiction."
The subject is controversial and is part of each person's individual sexuality, even though there is so much information on social media, it is experiences and emotional self-control that will define your actions.
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