If I could make one of my really bad habits socially acceptable, it would hands down be procrastination.
And no, I don't mean the "I'm lazy and just don't want to do it" kind. I mean the calculated chaos of waiting until the last possible moment, when the pressure is choking and the deadline is breathing fire down my neck - that's when I finally move. And somehow, I still pull it off, still deliver, still impress. But also? Still get judged for it
I've been this way for as long as I can remember. In school, I'd sit through an entire week with a project hanging over my head, fully aware that I hadn't even started and yet I'd do nothing. Then the night before it was due, I'd pull an all-nighter, pump myself full of adrenaline and maybe a little sugar, and hammer out something surprisingly good. And the worst part? It worked. So I kept doing it. Again and again.
Teachers would say things like "You're capable of so much more if you'd just start early". I heard that line so often it might has well be printed on my grade card. Friends shake their head when I mention starting something important the night before it's due. Some of them panic if they're not done three days earlier, meanwhile, I'm there, casually ignoring the storm brewing above my head like it doesn't exist - until it does.
But me? I thrive in that panic zone. There's something about the urgency that sharpens my focus. I stop thinking, I just do it. It's as if all the clutter in my head gets shoved aside and my brain finally clears a path: "You have no choice now, you're doing this"
I've tried changing. I've tried the planners, the schedules, the productivity apps with cute timers and motivational quotes. I've tried romanticizing the idea of "getting things done early", pretending I'm the kind of girl who sips tea while checking her to-do list in perfect order. Spoiler: I'm not, it never sticks.
And no, procrastination doesn't automatically make me lazy. People mix those two up a lot. Laziness is not wanting to do anything at all. Procrastination is knowing you'll do it- just not yet. It's not about not caring; it's about getting stuck in your own head until pressure finally clears the fog.
Because the truth is, procrastination is a deeply ingrained rhythm in my life. One that, as chaotic as it looks from the outside, often works for me.
If society could just accept that not everyone works best by starting early -if people could stop labeling procrastination as pure irresponsibility- I think I'd be less anxious about how I work, and more proud of the fact that I get the work done at all. I'm not saying it's healthy, or ideal, but it's mine. And if I could snap my fingers and make it socially acceptable, I will.
Because sometimes, our bad habits are just misunderstood coping mechanisms. And sometimes, they're the messy little engines that still get us across the finish line
What about you? What bad habit would you love to be off the hook for?
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