At times, people will give you advice but it is left to you if you make use of it or you discard it. Sometimes people will tell you it is good to take advice from elders but at the same time fools get old too.
There was a time that I was still single, all my friends are in a relationship and are always advice me to get myself a boyfriend. There are always a boy that can be my friend but are they ready for any serious relationship.
One of my friend tried to matchmake me but I don't like the guy because he is too proud, his arrogance is showing clearly on his face so I told her that I was not interested.
After some time, one of my male friend asked me out but I don't know what to do because I don't want to get my heart broken again so I asked my friend for advice but I regret it immediately.
Once I told her about it her answer was you can't date someone like him and when I asked her why, she said he is below my standard which makes me asked myself what is my standard. She said you need to date someone who can help you financially because her herself can not settle for less. She said the person she introduced to me is better than that guy. Fine this guy is not rich but I have hope that his future is bright.
immediately she said that, I understand where she was coming from. It is because of the guy she introduced to me, she actually want me to date him but since I brought another person up, she's is trying to discourage me.
I didn't even think about what she said or give her any answer and just follow my heart and that same guy is the one I got married to, look at where we are today, we are not rich yet but still we are doing great.
I don't know but what if I have listen to her then, that is why I don't like telling people anything about me because if you follow their advice, you will be the one to lose at the end of the day.
This is my participation to this week #weekend-engagement. Thanks to @galenkp for this great initiative.
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