Greetings friends of WEEKENDEXPERIENCES 😊❤️
Excellent topics for this weekend, I consider all of them to be worth reflecting on a bit, except for number 3, I think no one is going to dare to do this one, ha ha and I'm not going to be the exception 🤭, so my chosen topic for this weekend is the following:
Have you ever found yourself being unkind to, or hard on, yourself? Explain.
Tell me, has everyone in their life mistreated themselves, reproached themselves, or insulted themselves? Give me some comfort, because I've done it on countless occasions, in too many situations, and then I reconsider and hug myself, because only I can give myself the comfort I need.
One of the things that has happened to me most often in my life is trusting people too quickly. Despite all the setbacks I've had in life, I haven't learned anything. I blame myself a lot about that, but I'm trying to improve this situation.
It's just that sometimes I feel the need to share my problems or my troubles so much that I fall into the worst hands. Sometimes they're people who seem very sweet and loyal, and when I least expect it, they stab me in the back. That's where my cruel treatment of myself begins. On many occasions, I've called myself stupid, I've said very cruel things to myself, and then I start thinking about those embarrassing situations, reliving the shame and regret, instead of learning and moving forward.
After a while, I start to think things through and come to the conclusion that the problem isn't me, it's those people who don't know how to be loyal to friendship. Perhaps my desperation to find a good friend leads me to trust those people more than my own intuition.
Wow, and I start to think about all the cruel treatment we give each other, and it's just too much. When I don't get enough sleep and spend hours and hours on the phone, going to bed very late, and having to get up very early the next day for my routine, not getting any rest at all, I often feel pain in my body, ignoring the signals my body gives me for not getting adequate rest.
And the time I've treated myself the cruelest is when I make bad choices in relationships that turn out to be harmful or toxic, putting up with mistreatment because I think that if that's what came my way, it's because I don't deserve better, or because the universe simply doesn't consider me to share my life with someone who treats me with respect and love. 😔
And so we go through life treating ourselves very cruelly, but it is only within ourselves to improve all that treatment and love ourselves, love your body, love your life and only then will you be able to improve how you treat yourself 🥰, eat healthy, exercise, enjoy a walk alone with yourself and fight for all your goals and engrave in your mind, yes I can, yes I can and yes I will be able to 😊❤️
The photos shared here are my own property taken with my iPhone 11 phone, for English translation use Google Translate