Seeing this weekend proposed topic brought me back to thinking,Are you Pessimistic or Optimistic?
I will be saying about the both because at a point of my life I was Pessimistic not Optimistic and been the both helped in different life aspects.
They happened to be a time when I had a very good friend,I met him in his place PPA,we have seen each other before but he didn't noticed me,then we didn't get to talk to each other but he was my Facebook friend, after he was done with his service,he left and that was during the time we started chatting over on Facebook that was after some years he was done with his service,he requested for my WhatsApp number to chat more over there.
On a different times,he will always ask for a video call with me even to request for meeting each other in person since he can not remember me again,on a different times I will always declined it because of my busy schedule and already I knew what he's after asking for us to see each other meanwhile I knew what that will come out after meeting each.
On Communication was always regular and strong that most times he tells me about some personal stuffs even how his mother fall ill for the past days and how her health isn't progressing for all medication administered on her even his proposal for work he wants to establish like a whole lots of things and seek my personal opinion on how to go about it but he never stopped asking for us to meet each until the day I made up my mind to meet him,so I stopped at somewhere,he came there to picked me up.......I believed it was never what he expected,maybe he expected someone more mature in look,more advanced to his age and someone more bigger than my size.
Why do I say so?
After I returned back that day,our chatting or his regular disturbance with calls started to drop gradually,I was never surprised I must say because I was Pessimistic about it so it didn't get to affect me even after that we stopped checking up on each others again just as before.
I've learned to be optimistic over everything because I feels like letting go of the thought that I knew it that it will results into this or that but rather won't speak out instead seeks a strategic ways in making it more favourable or adapting to the new changes.
"Optimism" has taught me to focus on possibilities rather than limitations.
Being optimistic doesn't mean I ignore challenges, but I believe in my ability to overcome them.
Optimism gives me hope and motivation, even on tough days.
-I've learned to reframe negative thoughts and find the silver lining.
Optimism helps me stay resilient and bounce back from setbacks.
However,I used to be pessimistic before but not again.
How optimism has impacted my life?
It helps me to mop out all strategies I can use to maintain an optimistic outlook,
It also goes in a very long way to help me balance optimism with realism or pragmatism.
I can not deny of ones been pessimistic but now an optimist.
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