This is when I first moved out of my home and took control of my life, independently from my parents. I was nervous, I was excited, and I am not sure if I was forced or wanted to leave on my own. It was a choice, all right, but there was no other option. If you ask me how the process went, I would say it was a big problem in the beginning, but it went smoothly in the end.
Unfortunately, not all children are lucky with their classmates and teachers. I also used to go to a school in my town and expected it to be a friendly class where children liked to go early in the morning. They forget to take a walk, they forget to have breakfast, but tell them not to stop having fun with their school friends. I wanted to do the same.
But when friends are not like this and those students come down on bullying, then it is difficult. Every year there are more and more cases of "bullying" in modern schools, moreover, not only close-minded classmates, but sometimes, older class students and teachers themselves take part in such demonstrative acts.
And the consequences of such bullying sometimes bother those children, and I am one of them. Senseless and ruthless bullying is not a "trend". There has always been harassment. In some cases, parents have to change the city of residence to protect their children from bullying, but in this case, I decided to go to the city myself.
Also, it might be disrespectful for a child to discuss this problem with their parents, but I didn’t think so. Adolescence is the "hidden period" of growing up. Not all of them have enough contact with their parents to avoid mistakes and make the right decisions. More often than not, parents become aware of this problem when they are outside the classroom.
I often came home with bruises for which there was no reason. I often broke down and was constantly looking for excuses not to go to school. I could not concentrate on eating and sleeping. There were health problems and nightmares at night. Academic performance was falling when I wanted to do something big. And the bullying doesn’t necessarily have to be physical. It was the psychological attacks that turned out to be much more destructive.
I told my father that I was being bullied in school. He tried to tell me that everything should be fine, but when it did not happen the way we wanted, he sent me to the city for high school.
From here, the story of how I grew up started.
I was living in a single room in a hostel at a reputable private school.
I felt that I had become independent from my family at a very young age. I felt strange when my parents came to drop me in the hostel. Boys from the neighborhood of the hostel met them. But my parents were sad when it was time to say goodbye.
He assured my parents not to worry about me anymore. They will take full care of me. I was sad after my parents left. I had tears in my eyes, but they consoled me and sat beside me for a long time.
When I woke up the next day, it was the first time that no family member was with me. I missed my mother a lot.
In the beginning, I had decided to study diligently, so I made a timetable, in which there was no place for sports. While preparing the timetable of studies, I didn’t know that preparing the timetable was one thing, but following the timetable was an entirely different thing.
I could not follow the timetable, because the greenery of the playfield, the football, the speed of the racing track, and the agility of volleyball would draw me every moment of the evenings and mornings, and I would forget everything as soon as I reached the playground.
Understanding of life comes from the knowledge of experience, which is very important for life. After passing out of every class through bookish knowledge, I thought one would get admission to the next class, but this bookish knowledge is incomplete without putting it into practice. I was trying to learn life lessons as fast as I could.
It is necessary for us to gain experience in the form of knowledge by seeing and examining the world, because this knowledge is helpful in solving problems in every adverse situation. That’s why experience is more important than learning, through which life is tested and decorated and an understanding of life comes.
However, everything went well for me. It is a natural quality of man to be ambitious. Everyone wants to achieve something special in life. Everyone wants to grow up and become something, so I also wanted to become a banker.
Everyone’s desires are different, and they are able to see their desires turning into reality. I am also one of those few lucky people who made their wishes come true. They must have strong willpower. Fortunately, I have strong willpower and a desire to learn.
It is necessary to have a definite goal in the life of a human being, but it is very important to have a definite goal and a definite direction in life.
However, everything went well for me. It is a natural quality of man to be ambitious. Everyone wants to achieve something special in life. Everyone wants to grow up and become something, so I also wanted to become a banker.
Everyone’s desires are different, and they are able to see their desires in the form of reality. I am also one of those few lucky people who are able to make their wishes come true. They must have strong willpower. Fortunately, I have strong willpower and a desire to learn.
It is necessary to have a definite goal in the life of a human being, that is, it is very important to have a definite goal and a definite direction in life.
There are many obstacles in choosing a good school, getting admission to it, studying there, etc. But I had full support from my father, and I also got a scholarship after school so that I could overcome these obstacles. For this, I resolved to work very hard.
I studied and took a commerce degree, did my master's, and then became a probationary officer in a private bank, but KOVID-19 ruined everything. I lost my job, but I am not disappointed. I am now looking for work and also trying to help the progress of my village.
I want to contribute to the welfare of my village and villagers so they understand the importance of cleanliness, health, and a balanced diet. I had no knowledge of online writing, but I am trying my best to write every day and earn a few bucks to keep myself going.
Thank you all for reading my humble story.
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