Letting things go, and appreciating everything that comes.
This year, it has been a tough year in my personal life. If I don't create happiness, then there's no happiness in it.
I'm lucky, at this quite difficult time, especially in dealing with mental health, I was awarded a new job. My new workplace gives a lot of positive energy.
Yes, letting go of the old job, to get a new job, is the right choice. Everything went fast, my tiredness from working in the old place for almost five years, was replaced by the atmosphere in a new place, which I have only enjoyed the last few months.
Although work is not the basis of happiness, but I think that enjoyment after work is one of happiness as well. The definition of happy tired.
My efforts to relieve fatigue after work, I can even enjoy at work. Very simply, I can enjoy breathing air and enjoying the beauty of the scenery behind the window, around the work place, the green plants that I see provide a lot of energy.
I consider it a part of daily meditation. Or playing with stray cats that are often fed in front of the office door.
And, picking passion fruit in the parking lot when going home from work. The fatigue subsided, and I smiled again.
You can be happy with simple things.
I think you can also find simple things that you can enjoy at work, like I did. Enjoy nature. Appreciate every breath we take. No tightness.
Another thing I do after I'm tired from work is to enjoy delicious food, if I'm tired of buying food outside, I'll cook it myself, or otherwise.
Good food doesn't have to be expensive, just the kind of taste of your favorite food, be it spicy, sweet, or savory. Because I like spicy food, almost every day I choose spicy food menu, it makes me happy every day. There may be certain considerations regarding health issues and others, but for me, the right thing must be prioritized. You are in control of your happiness, including the happiness of your tongue and stomach.
They are the most influential. Giving selflessly.
I receive a lot of happiness both where I work and where I live. Because I work in a new place that is far from where I used to live, I decided to rent a boarding room which is much closer to the office. With the reason to save costs.
The new environment in which I live isn't bad, it's not difficult for me to adapt, because from the start I realized that I need to stay happy wherever I am.
Neighbors can be good friends in sharing stories in their spare time after coming home from work. It's a relief that those I didn't know before, could become family because they rented a boarding room in the same place.
And, of course, friends. Those who even heard more of my story than my own family.
Family is identity, family will always be home, they are the main support.
But those who are not family and I have considered as family, are very important in the journey of my life.
Everyone gives positive energy to me in living life. Happiness that continues to be created. And, hope others will be happy because of me.
I want to give happiness, through anything. Including in my bad writings. I am grateful that my friend taught me to be able to join this community.
I feel more and more successful, despite the bad things, and begin to find happiness every day.
I am grateful.
Thanks a lot Hiver!
Thanks my beloved besti @titisnariyah