Yes, I have wondered what it would be like to be the opposite gender for a while. If I were to spend some time as the opposite gender, I think it would profoundly change how I view the world and my place in it.
Sometime back I remember my husband and I discussing and I was like it is not easy being a woman and a mother. I was now explaining to him how difficult it is for me, waking early everyday and barely sleeping at night, taking care of the kids and all. And he was like what is inside sef? Isn't it just to wake up and cook and take care of the children? I can do it now.
I now replied him 'let's switch position for just one week, you take care of the children and do the chores and all then I sit down and press phone as you do then when you're done cooking, I'll come and eat'. He just laughed. But honestly speaking, I'll like to be the opposite gender for a while.
People treat men and women differently, whether intentionally or subconsciously. Experiencing these differences firsthand would provide a deeper understanding of the social dynamics and biases that exist.
The way I would dress and present myself would also be an interesting change. I would enjoy exploring fashion choices and societal expectations tied to them. This could mean experimenting with clothes, hairstyles, and accessories that I wouldn’t typically choose. This experience could help me understand the pressures and pleasures that come with the opposite gender’s fashion norms.
If I were to change back after this period, I’m sure my perspective would be richer and more empathetic. I would have a better understanding of the challenges and advantages that come with being the opposite gender. This empathy would likely make me more sensitive to the experiences of others, allowing me to support and advocate for gender equality more effectively. In the end, such an experience would be eye-opening, helping me grow as a person and fostering a deeper respect for the diverse experiences of all genders.
**Image is mine. I was trying to get a masculine picture using Snapchat but I couldn't find. **