Changes that surprise us - Week 264

Changes in people's behavior can always surprise us, and we never expect people we know to change overnight, we always expect them to be the same as we knew them or at least that relationships are always bearable.

What has surprised you about someone you know well and why? In this case I had a very unusual experience that surprised me a lot, I have a close relative who I saw grow up, in fact he was always in my house, he knew my family well and my mother loved him like a son, he was always part of our family, and he was always treated as an equal, he saw my children being born and he got along with them very well.

When this person got married he lived in the same yard of our house, and we shared with his wife and my daughter who would be about 9 to 10 years old, he was always with them and helped them at home, but he was changing according to what his wife told him and he had a problem with me because he became aggressive and not only yelled at me but also at my mother, my grandmother, and not at the same time but in different episodes, and this happened because of things that did not make sense.

When he stopped talking to me he and his wife stopped talking to the girl as if she had done something, I did not understand his change or the behaviors he was having, his reactions were very repeated and what made me most angry was that he did it with my grandmother an old lady, and this had never happened until he got married, in the end we stopped treating him, today I only say hello and we no longer live close but we are very distant, only occasionally we have run into each other.

I am very surprised by his change because I loved him as a brother, now we are strangers, in fact he had a son that I have seen from time to time and I never thought that his children would be strangers to me and that my children would not deal with that person either, everything can change overnight and people can surprise us with their changes, the actions of others do not depend on us and we have to accept it, but it is always better to seek peace.

Thanks to friend @galenkp for the weekend topics and motivating us to create content, in this your week #264 see you in a next post 😉, blessings 😘 .