Today we are preparing for the 30th-day commemoration of our family member's death. As a tradition, we will hold a feast by inviting village leaders, traditional figures, and religious figures to attend and pray. To entertain our guests, we will prepare several dishes, including rice, meat side dishes, and several other dishes. This work involves our cooperation, and the community also participates in helping prepare this event.

optimistic or pessimistic

I am an optimistic person. I prefer to assess everything as having a positive or beneficial impact, even if it doesn't align with my desires. It's very difficult to always be optimistic. If we don't return to basic human understanding, we will always be guided by pessimistic thoughts that always judge bad and evil.

I am optimistic that everything that happens to me is predestined by God and is the best for me. Perhaps why do we always assume something is bad? In fact, we misjudge things. We only see things from the perspective of our desires and desires. If they don't match, we assume they're bad. We forget the good side of what has been given to us.

What's the cure for a hangover?

As a nurse, I prefer chemical medications that work quickly over natural remedies that take a long time to heal. If I'm hungover, I usually take antacids containing the active ingredients aluminum hydroxide, magnesium, or simethicone. It all depends on the severity of the hangover. If it's just a normal hangover, I recommend drinking milk, which contains calcium, which can neutralize toxins.

How do you and your partner recover after an argument?

This is very interesting. Although a little funny, it's the most effective way to recover and calm emotions between me and my partner. What is it? After an argument with my partner, a few hours later I immediately took him to the bedroom and had sex. After that, our anger immediately subsided, without much talking, and it was an expression of our love for each other. This method is very effective and we always do it. If you're unsure, you can try it with your partner. 😁

Have you ever wished you had a different skin color?

I'm very surprised by our behavior as humans. Those with black skin want white, those with white skin want red, and so on. I think skin color is natural, derived from genes inherited from parents and supporting hormones. I admit that when I was a teenager, I really wanted white skin. I tried several things, such as using whitening creams and moisturizers, but in the end, I always went back to my natural skin color.

What does the following quote mean to you and why?

The word love doesn't have the same meaning for both sexes, and this is one of the causes of serious misunderstandings that divide them. by Simone de Beauvoir

Perhaps we all have different interpretations of this quote, but for me, the meaning of this quote is that women and men have different ways of thinking and expressing love. Sometimes women tend to want to be praised and pampered, but most men ignore this, preferring to choose their partner. Like me, who rarely praises my partner, I will correct him when he looks bad. Sometimes he feels annoyed and angry with me, but it's all manageable because we understand each other. However, if we had maintained our egos, our relationship might have been torn apart. Fortunately, we have mutual understanding.

_{who is @yuliadi
Yuliadi is a 38-year-old nurse living in Indonesia. Since discovering Hive, I've been more active on my blog and writing original content every day. I use Indonesian, translated using Google Translate. My blog is my life.
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