Sometimes the door you think you’ve missed is the very one that leads you where you’re meant to be. This is the rainy day story I’ll never forget.
The first time I understood the weight of time wasn’t from looking at a clock, it was the day I missed an opportunity that could have changed my life.
I was nineteen, standing at the edge of a noisy Lagos street, holding a crumpled invitation to a scholarship interview. Rain had soaked my shirt, and my shoes made this annoying squeak with every step. But what pounded louder than my heartbeat was the thought: What if I’m already too late?
I could have turned back. Honestly, it would have been easier to just go home and save myself the embarrassment of walking in drenched. But something deep inside me said, “Go.”
The Doorway
The hall was already half empty when I got there.
At the entrance stood this man in a sharp suit, arms folded.
Man: “You’re late.”
Me: “I… I came as fast as I could, sir.”
He looked me over for a few seconds, you know that type of look that makes you feel like he’s already made up his mind? then he stepped aside.
Inside, three people sat behind a long table. My clothes clung to my skin. My pen was shaking as I tried to fill out the form.
Halfway through, one of them looked up.
Interviewer: “We’ve already closed entries. Why should we make an exception for you?”
My mind went blank. Everything I wanted to say suddenly felt too small. Too desperate. Then I remembered something my late father used to say:
"If your story is worth hearing, tell it with your whole chest."
So I took a breath
Me: “Because I’m not here just for myself. I’m here for every time life told me ‘no’ and I refused to listen. I’m here for the chance to prove that where I start doesn’t decide where I finish.”
The room went quiet. One of them leaned forward, scanning my form again
The Result
The rest of the interview? Honestly, it’s a blur. I just remember walking out feeling like I had left everything I had on that table.
I didn’t get the scholarship
But that day changed something in me. I realised that time isn’t just hours and minutes, it’s about showing up, even when you think it’s too late.
A few months later, my phone rang. It was one of the panel members. He told me about another program I hadn’t even applied for and said, “I remembered your story.” That single call opened a door I never saw coming, and it became the foundation for so many things I do today.
The Lesson
Years have passed since then. I’ve learnt skills, faced failures, celebrated small wins, and carried my share of scars. Yet that rainy day? It still feels fresh, like it happened last week.
People say success is about being at the right place at the right time. Maybe for some it is. But for me, I’ve learnt that showing up even if you’re late, even if you’re not ready is a habit that never goes out of style.
Life doesn’t always give you sunny days and open doors. Sometimes it gives you rain, rejection, and locked gates. But if you keep walking, keep knocking, sooner or later, a door opens. And it might not be the one you expected… but it’s often the one you truly needed.
Clocks can only measure hours, but the right moment can live in you forever
Thanks for reading through my story
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