Greetings to my esteemed friends on the Cent community and the entire Hive blockchain, it's been a very beautiful day for me and I hope it's the same from your end.
Today, I'll be discussing on a very important topic that's a major challenge to us and it's a determinant factor to our rising or downfall.
Most of us are foolish lovers, I don't mean to call you names. What I mean is that, we love beyond human comprehension. Once you're in love, you can even go ahead to die for the ones you love, including family and friends.
Have you every been in that situation when you discuss about your progress and successes to your friends, sometimes they don't feel so excited in the measure that you would've been.
Have you ever been encouraged to leave that relationship that you're in by a friend, without knowing that they're envious about your sweet and sound relationship? They're closer than you think - wolves in sheep clothing.
The most freighting aspect of this situation is that, you don't know they're right beside you and you don't know.
A friend once told me that, she only discovered that the man she wanted to marry got married to her close friend who told her that her fiance wasn't her class and that he was too poor to take care of her. This happened after she asked her best friend to visit her fiance to assess what he's doing for a living.
Just ponder on what kind of friend this is.
Friends aren't the only perpetrators of the wolves in sheep clothing. In Africa where I'm from. Your relatives can be the direct cause of your problems and still be the one weeps and console you the most.
3 Ways to identify Wolves in Sheep Clothing
- take time to observe their conducts after informing them about the good deeds happening around you. They may pretend to be happy at that moment but time will tell.
- share only less important things or secrets to them. A true friend cannot expose your secrets even during misunderstanding between both of you. This is a true fact. They'll always insist to know your secrets and when they don't have access to it, they get angry.
- espionage their lives by sending, other trusted friends to discover if they can keep your secrets.
Be careful of wolves in sheep clothing, they're closer than you think or imagine.