Something surprising happened to me of recent, I had this my friend whom back then we were very closed, but as life may have it she went ahead of me and our friendship level dropped.
This was a friend that we all did things together and always had each others back but money decided to separate us. She thought I wasn't in her class again and decided to snub and avoided me for no just reason, I accepted it in good faith.
No condition is permanent, and by the grace of our maker I was also uplifted from the level I was after much hardwork and determination. I have not gotten to were I want to be, but I can hide the fact that things had really changed for me.
Interestingly this my friend who I had forgotten for a longtime slide into my DM and was trying to act as if we were still friends and everything was normal, she was trying to even blame me for our separation.
When I saw her messages, it was an evident that she knew I had upgraded in life and now wants us to be back as friends. All actions was all about begging for us to be back as normal.
I did not get angry with her, I accepted that we were still friends, but I never got too attached to her again. But again that experience taught me a lesson.
Nobody is too occupied to give you attention, you are not just their priority. People would always create time for what and who they love, when it is important to them that make it their priority.
When you are important to them, they put you at the top of their priority, when you are less important they keep you at the bottom or they neglect you completely.
When you usually faced the issue of people neglect you and prioritize you don't fill bad or pity yourself, it is time to develop yourself. You have no time to force relationship any longer, it is time to prioritize self- development.
You should not let yourself down even when others did so, you need to develop yourself that others decides to make you their priority without you even caring that much.
All the excuses you get from people telling you how busy and why they could not be or associate with you are all lies, this are all sign of your lack of value to them, give yourself value and this would not be a problem.
Don't be too present, make yourself scarce, grow yourself in knowledge and value, and develop yourself to the point that you hardly hear people telling you that they are busy when you need them.
This is not just a motivational post, but a true life experience that we would all faced when we are in the downside of life.