Hello friends! Let tell truth to ourselves there something we do that causes delay to our progress. The part one will focus on ladies and how they cause marital delay to themselves without knowing.
Some ladies use their attitude, wrong mentality and proud spirit to cause delay and scared away a thing which could be theirs especially marriages. There are some certain factors that contributed to delay in marriages of which most ladies. A careful study will show that they are the sole proprietorship and custodian of those factors
- Staying in an unproductive relationship in the name of love:
Unproductive relationship is relationship that no future plans, no meaningful gain and nothing tangible can be achieved. It is equivalent to been in a dark house to read when there's reflection of light. Unproductive relationship is grain of resources which could be utilize in the with right person in the right.
- Boyfriend: just as the name implies, "Boy-friend" a boy is
a male child or teenager, as distinguished from infants or adults. Also, a boy is a male of low station, a worthless male, a wretch; a mean and dishonest male, a knave.
A boyfriend a male partner in an unmarried romantic relationship.
Marriage is the last thing in the Boy's agenda. Boys doesn't think of marriage why then do you jeopardize your future with a boyfriend. The mentality of every boy is to make money and they enter in to relationship with the mindset of having fun without any marriage plans, that's why a boyfriend will ask any lady who got pregnant for him to abort it because their minds are not yet certain for marriage. Boyfriends keeps scaring away a well-meaning and prospective suitors who have asked a lady hand in marriage away daily on the ground that the lady has a boyfriend. This is one of the factors that keeps ladies till over marriageable age.
- Overdue engagement ring: some ladies has become Lord of rings due to overdue engagement ring. They don't joke with an engagement ring. Most men having knowing their weakness in this area use it most frequently to deceive some ladies because they know how women valued an engagement ring, Some men will engage a lady and even forget about it. Engagement ring is a spirit of delay especially when it's more than it should. It is the spirit that makes some women to raise their finger above their head to show the world that a young engaged her forgetting about that she's scaring away serious suitors who are ready to settle down with. Many engagement rings are handcuffs that tie down better most ladies from seeing their prospective suitors.
- Don't destroys your future with proud spirit: Proud spirit is having too high an opinion of oneself; arrogant, supercilious. It is the spirit that tells you to always talk to men anyhow because you are beautiful, brilliant, highly favored, educated and from a rich background. Don't worry very soon that proud spirit will put your back on the ground. Some ladies loss the prospective suitors who would have been that perfect man for them by seeing themselves so high and in a better position than the man, not even greeting men anymore because they think such a man is not in their class. Don't hate yourself by ignoring and looking down on a man who is not doing well today. Why not calm down and humble yourself, you won't marry yourself irrespective of how blessed you are.
- Don't scared your spouse away with an uncondone character: Bad character is as worse as poison. It kills both the spirit and the soul. Bad character eats even you that have it before eating others. It is a disease kills so faster and it has no cure except you deviate from it. Some ladies characters are worse than an devil yet they are expecting a man to marry them.pdtbof them can insult without control neither considering the age or category of person they rendered insult to, some even has the fortitude to fight in the market while some might even go naked over an issues. Bad character is the spirit that keeps many ladies single even at 40 years of age.
Work on yourself, don't be your own enemy. Thank you for reading through