We had a little misunderstanding but didn't take so long to resolve it!
Hello dear hivians, Good morning and how was your night? or is it night hours now in your country? today I want to share my experience with having a little misunderstanding with my aunt and how we resolve it so quickly and what I really do have to say about the whole situation and how it all started, so without taking so much of your time let's get started already...
First of all, I have always been a fashion lover which includes having taste for really good things with quality and for in as much as I can remember, I have never find myself in a situation of stealing from people or getting to go out with someone in the name of trying to get something from that person be it a guy or lady and what happened yesterday was almost something similar but then again I understood something that when someone have a love for you they try to look out for you and once they say see they are not comfortable with maybe because they don't really understand you will, they will want to open up to you just so you don't go ahead and make mistakes like they did in their early ages or someone they know did in the early ages. Now I know why I am breaking these down just so you can see this from my point and her point since I am the one telling the story. I am not going to be leaving any details out of the story just so you can pass your comments looking at both sides of the story as she explained clearly her part. So the pictures you see are the pictures I took in my auntie shop before going out for a date with a guy that I have known for over a year but we haven't get to know each other since I left to Abuja and when I got a call from him that he relocated to Abuja few weeks back I was so glad and we made arrangements to meet up in a open place to talk at least it's been a while we've seen each other...
My aunt was the one who actually took me the pictures before I left the shop and we are talking about early evening hours because I needed to go early so that I could be back before night hours since I don't like going out late especially with a guy but if it is with my girls it is very well understandable, so when I was leaving I kind of noticed she wasn't all that bright and I didn't want to ask her to go in details as I clearly felt it was about my going out with a guy and so I wanted to just leave that conversation till when I'm back because if I want to involve in talking about that conversation it will end up taking so much time and I may end up going to my date very late or even getting to cancel it and I didn't want that to happen after having someone waiting for me already, besides i was always going to come back to the house so we could always talk about it and so I left.
I got to meet with him and I could see that a lot have changed about him as he was looking more good compare to before and we talked about how life has been and how he is enjoying Abuja for the few weeks he have stayed, and the expenses and the rest. I didn't order for much as I clearly order for what I can afford to pay myself but then he insisted to pay the bills as I was requesting we split it. I mean we are more like friends so there's nothing to be ashamed of but he insisted so I let him handled it...
I came back almost to 7:00pm due to traffic because I left kind of early and he didn't want me to go early though but I had to explain to him the situation and so I booked a ride and left early but with the holdup (traffic) that we had on the road, I arrived almost to 7:00 pm and when I arrived she had already closed from work, I mean my aunt. I wanted to go meet her in the shopping so I called her and she told me she was in the house already that she closed kind of early and she had prepared food as well so I had to go straight to the house not going to the shop any longer. I got to the house I ditched food for the both of us, we had dinner and then I sat close to her and I asked her what was wrong? if she was worried about me or something? She was surprised how I noticed and I explain to her that i have been living with her for a while so I understand that perfectly well and that if I had asked her to explain earlier I wouldn't have been able to go early and come back exactly at that time couple with experiencing hold up (traffic) so I needed to skip it till when I'm back because I know that as soon as I am back we should talk about this so that we can move past it already...
She told me how Abuja life is and how guys play around with young girls like me and so she is worried that I always go out and sometimes I tell her that I'm going out with my girls but she have the feeling that I am actually going out with guys and if she doesn't address these issues and something happened to me she would have to blame herself for ever and she doesn't want that to happen so that is why she was so worried. Also she talked about how I spend my money on clothes and things that are not necessary instead of saving up for my future.
Now at this point she sounds so lovely because that is exactly what someone that really cares about you 100% will act
She did exactly that, I did not know when tears actually roll out from my eyes as I was looking at her, she was so good and caring and for all these while that I have been helping her to sell, she always make sure that she gives me something and sometimes I refused to take it but she will tell me it is not an option so I will have to take it and beside since i plan on opening my own shop I will need to save up money and so she always make sure she gave me something. I don't know what else I would want to ask in life having her full love and attention to myself and I always try my best to make sure that we leave happily because she deserves happiness.
Rounding this whole story up, I explain to her that I was actually saving up and at the same time I explain to her my test for fashion and quality and how I am so used to it that I don't know how I can actually go without looking well and that she needn't worry about me saving up as I already have some savings and have plans ahead of time. I told her it was just an adult and it was just a friend that we where in a ver open place that she should trust me a little that I am an adult and I got her. I told her she shouldn't hide things from me as her advices means a lot to me. I am just so lucky to have someone like her in my life, she is more to me than anything and whenever I'm with her I feel like I'm with my mom. I feel safe and I feel at home.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
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