I remember it all so clearly just like yesterday, how I stood there crying that you followed another girl and left me, I thought you did not want me in your Circle but I really liked you. How could an 8years old little girl like me understand love so deeply, because the intense hurt and pain I felt that day, and the over flow of tears that accompanied it, could only have been due to my love for you.
Well, you Later Came to me and you came Strong. You came with everything; I bless the day we met.
I get it, we were from 2 different worlds; Your world was filled with abundance and wealth, you lacked nothing, not even Parental love, you went to biggest boarding school, you wore the best clothes and even had a long hair like a girl should and you are Calm, I On the other hand had only one parent, my mom, who toiled to give us the little we had, my mom couldn’t afford the boarding school you went to, I didn’t wear clothes as good as yours, and my mom couldn’t afford to pay for new hairdo’s weekly, so I wore a low hair all through, and I am Crazy, lol, but I guess this is what even makes us perfect.
Your Mom did not like me, even though I did everything possible to win her heart, she did everything possible to separate us, she even confronted my mom on many occasions, but you stood by me, you sneak out to see me, I save money and sneak out to come visit you at your boarding school, which was far away from town. WHAT A DUO!
Along the Line, another crazy little girl joined our circle and we became the most Mischievous Trio growing up in that town, lol your mom hated it even more, but she knew our bond was too strong. Oh! The things we did, the high level of team work to cause a little chaos here and there, the number of hearts we broke, I mean who needed boys at age 12? Rolling my eyes
Dear Ruby, my day one girl, my ride or die, my gist partner, my fighter, my confidant, my best friend, thank you for jeopardizing the mundane conception of recent times, that” a person is better off alone and without Friends”, talk more of tagging these friends “Besties”. Girl you are stubborn and as hard as a rock, yet so kind and subtle, you are a lover, you are smart working ( yes, I didn’t say hardworking), you are intentional and you the rich girl.
Dear Sally, you Came and added even more energy, intense love and care, homeliness, beauty, craze and laughter to our friendship, we have been friends since we were 11years old, you are the “mother” in our friendship, lol. The way to pay attention to details about our lives and plan the sweetest things, you can be lazy sometimes though, but that cannot even come close to how amazing you are, you are teachable, you are bold, you are a giver, you are a lot more. in a world where “bestie” is almost lost, I am so happy that I can proudly and confidently call you both my besties.
We have grown to be QUALITY women and I am so proud.
I love how we are all thriving and growing,
I love how sometimes we go on a video call and all we say is Nothing but cry, cry because something hurtful happened to one of us
I love how we stay on a call for hours, planning on our next move or a vacation that has never really happened, LMCO! (LAUGHING MY CHEST OUT)
I love how we don’t have to say a word but we can tell what the other person is saying and we burst into unending and choking laughter (I really can’t take you girls to any serious meeting because you might just see the client’s shoe or tie in a funny way and burst into laughter, hahahahahahhaha
You are beautiful to me, and our Friendship is one more Success story that many will celebrate and get inspired by.
I LOVE YOU, NOW AND FOREVER MY GIRLS, you are the ones that have stayed True
This is a sign to appreciate your bestie, if you have one.
Thank you for Reading
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