As an individual, we have rules to some certain things and things we tend to do or not. We might be strong in everything or in wherever we find ourselves but there still some certain things we promise ourselves not to do and to keep those promises we have to try our best not to break it.
It all depends on the individual's mindset, you might decide not to beat a lady while the other person might derive joy in beating ladies. But that doesn't mean I like men who beat up their women, I totally despise them so much.
One thing is to create list of things you will do and things you will never do and the other thing is to keep to you list. Most people promise to do one thing today and the next day, you find them doing what they have promised never to do. Let me take those who are addicted to drugs as an example, you will see many of them making promises or even creating a list of things they won't do again and one of it might be to stop smoking but at the end of the day, you will find them in the same thing they said they won't do again. Hehehehe
Making an anti bucket list is very easy and simple but keeping to the list is what many find difficult to do. We must first make sure we try our best to always keep to our words. Below are my anti bucket list;
I will never date a married man
This is one thing I use to remind myself everyday and I have learn to discipline myself when it comes to this kinds of thing. This has to be my number one list because I have been approached several times by married men to be their girlfriend and on several occasions I have denied their request.
It baffles me why some married men will decide to cheat on their wives, at least before they got married they knew that settling down with one woman means they actually love that person but must of them are just the opposite of what they claim.
The one that got me very angry was a man who got married five months back and was already looking for young girls to destroy their lives. He approached me to date him and I immediately refused knowing fully we that he got married recently because I attended his wedding. Dating a married Man is definitely one thing I will never do.
Take someone's boyfriend
Most girls when they see that a guy is spending money on his girlfriend and taking good care of her, other girls might feel jealous especially if they're not getting the same treat from their boyfriend, they might start planning on how to take the boy from the other person which is something I will never do.
No matter how spicy your relationship might be, mine is even more spicier than yours and I won't ever have the intention to take your guy from you.
I will never disappoint my family
You see most families going their separate ways because of one issue or the other. Most siblings make promises when they're small to always stay together no matter what happens but the moment they get married, their partner will start making them feel that their family is not worth whatever he/she is doing.
It is very bad to forget your family when everything is good for you, to the extent that you don't want anything to do with them. No matter what happened, blood they say is thicker than water and that you must have at the back of your mind. Family is everything and no matter what, I won't ever forget them or make them cry.