In this world we are in today people get to understand less how important a man is in society, homes, and the community but the accolades we give back to them are close to little or none.
while I was young I do usually think my father was doing too much when it came to being the head of the family not knowing the day-to-day struggle he had to put himself into to avoid '"it's not enough" when it comes to finance and other things. As I grew I got to understand that's the cycle of life.
Men are required to keep their feelings private, why? because there is an assumption that all men are meant to lock their feelings/pain in.
Some people think being a man should be tough, strong, and never show any emotions. They might also believe that men should always be the ones to take charge and be the breadwinners. But you know what? These beliefs aren't always true. Men can be sensitive, and nurturing, and have a wide range of interests and talents. It's important to remember that everyone is unique, and being a man means being true to yourself.
I disagree when being a man is said to be defined by age, in other words, you can simply say being a man is the ability to raise a family, protect them, and solve all their problems. being a man can be so demanding but still worthwhile.
Being a man is something all masculine figures should derive joy in doing but in the modern day we are now, the feminine figure has made it very hard because they expect much more than expected which might be so hard to keep up with leading a lot of them to depression, debt, toxicity and suicide.
I come as a pacifier to all men out there you are more than enough. Get some
meaningful skills as a young man, get yourself a quality education if possible,
associate yourself with people with great visions and missions, and most importantly get a quality partner. Then you'll see that it is not that hard being a man just keep fighting.
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