Do you think it's worth forgiving? Interesting question!
I recently wrote something about forgiveness and the truth I felt like writing more. I'm sure that many people have had to forgive someone for a mistake or simply live with that grudge inside.
I feel a little identified by that situation because I consider that many years ago I lived with that feeling and the truth was not at all pleasant, today I think a little different, it is worth letting go of certain things in that case feelings that simply destroy us inside.
I know it's not an easy step, sometimes we think it's illogical to forgive someone who hurt us and who did it without feeling any remorse, but now I say, it's worth living with all that inside? Is it worth destroying ourselves for someone else? I DON'T THINK SO!
I think it's an act of courage, where we have to be mature enough to be able to understand and accept someone else's mistake and on top of that forget what happened, or maybe not forget but let it go.
It is an act of love towards ourselves, because? because by letting go of that feeling of resentment or that which does not hurt we are freeing ourselves from all those bad thoughts and we are giving peace of mind and body. Nothing like being healthy not only physically but mentally as well.
I believe that knowing how to FORGIVE puts us above many people, makes us mentally superior, makes us more intelligent and also makes us more Happy, I believe that for all that is worth learning to forgive.
If we don't let go of all that hurts us we will never be really happy people, we will never be free, we will be trapped for a long time in our thoughts.
Obviously there are situations that perhaps one says, everything has a limit, and it is something unforgivable, but I think that depends on each one of us, how we see life and how we want to live ours, if we want to live full of anger and resentment or just the opposite. IT'S OUR DECISION.
I am not saying that we should forgive everything that is done to us, I am just saying that everyone is free to decide what to do in a situation like that, if a person asks you for forgiveness believe me that it was also difficult for him to do it, because I think that these are things that have to be valued in certain circumstances. It's just my opinion. As they say, we all have the right to a second chance, don't you think?
On the other hand many will say ok I'm sorry but I still feel like nothing happened? No, I'm not saying that, obviously forgiving someone doesn't necessarily have to imply that we forget what they did to us, I'm just talking about freeing both of us, him or her from guilt and us from resentment, it's allowing us to keep moving forward without any weight on our shoulders, without anything that hurts or makes us feel bad.
Just to be free...
Thanks for reading me!!
