It feels so good when you have an idea about something or probably have a goal in mind that you intend to achieve, then without hesitation you take action or step in securing it which is a positive mindset in boosting one's confidence. This mindset of believing in oneself really helps especially when experiencing tough times and difficult situations.
There are times when things doesn't go as planned especially when you put in more effort in achieving something but the turnout or expectation at the end is not encouraging which brings one's confidence down as the situation looks like a waste of time. Also there are times you will find yourself doing tough jobs or tasks for someone that to you the person will appreciate your effort not only for you to witness that not a single word of encouragement will be said instead it turnouts to be complain.
I have come to realise that we cannot satisfy human beings no matter how you showcase or deliver your best to them. Some will look for fault to criticize your work while also there are people who wouldn't just want to give you that credit for a job well done but to make you work more by utilizing your time and effort.
I have been in this situation before where i have an aunt that is doing well financially but because i needed a favour from her she asked me to come stay with them till i will get the thing i was looking for. Staying with my aunt was totally a different lifestyle i experienced because what i witness from her action when living with them was not encouraging at all just because she wanted to help me in achieving something.
I became a nanny overnight where i always look after her children and also take care of the house chores when she goes to work. The thing is am not bothered about my new position in the house but my main concern was that she never appreciate anything i do instead it is one complain or the other that also follows with insults all in the name of she wants to help me secure a job.
For months i have been enduring that and still she haven't even given me a good sign that soon i will get the job, instead she comes up with excuses. I have endure her character that sometimes she deliberately tests me to know if i will talk back at her or doing something that she will use as an advantage to say the person they wants to help is not worth it or have respect.
This have been going on for like a year till i eventually know she is just using me for her own favour in taking care of her house without considering what brought me there. I have to develop self confidence in comfronting her about her actions that it is not worth it at all. Human being feeling like God on earth is never a good example to your fellow human when you dont help them especially when they say they are the only people to help without believing there are so many helpers out there.
I took that decision to leave her house without regret and i promise myself that i will be better in what i do without regretting my actions. What we need to understand is that we humans have options as help can come from anyone at anytime so it is better to showcase the self confidence to avoid people taking advantage of you but what is required from us is to never give up in what we believe as good things awaits to be secured in the future.