When I begin to imagine the imbalance of life on how it showcases the different lifestyle of people, I only conclude it as just a life drama to experience because this doesn't seem new to anyone anymore as this occurs on a daily basis. We are in an era where everyone is fighting for their personal survival first before considering another person on their budget if necessary.
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I used to have a set of friends back then in school, where we do rubs minds together on how the future is going to be on our side when we put our mindset on goals we intend to achieve together which was a motivation to us. This togetherness always unites us that we share ideas together, eat together, play together and also have outings that we all go together.
The togetherness was to ensure we all work together to secure a better future for ourselves but then the situation of life and the personal lifestyle of every individual didn't make that happen as everyone intend to split. What we really don't understand is that we all have plans for the future which is a good one but when you don't work towards it the future plans for you.
We need to understand the fact that the journey for success is mostly an individual race where you have to step up personally before backup can follow. Everyone out there is fighting for their own personal survival which is not an easy race and if you feel it is necessary to depend on people for survival, that however is a personal choice and know it fully well that guarantee for a positive response is not guaranteed.
The only way forward to secure a better living is to step up your game in what to do and eradicate the mindset of depending on people that owe you nothing. The fact that you know people who are doing well financially don't give you the chance that you must collect things from them except they are willing to give or assist.
It however depends on the relationship you have with such people as they might consider the good old times but then that is not a guarantee that they are owing you, it is just a privilege or choice to give back. We humans can't be trusted as lifestyle of we humans changes especially when finance is involve.
There is no late comer for success is just a time difference of when things will be better for those who don't give up but knows what they are doing. It is only a matter of time but however the only way forward is to never relent no matter how challenging it might be.