Hi everyone welcome back to my blog, am james Frank am a relationship and a photographer,It has been a great pleasure posting on this wonderful community @hiveghana, where love is shared genuinely. are you always waiting for your partner to say sorry?
Be the first to say sorry
Don't care who started it, Don't care what it was about, Don't Care who is right and who is wrong . Don't care whose game it was, you are both behaving like spoilt brats and should go to your room at once .no seriously , we All fall out from time to time , that's human nature .
from now on If you want to be a committed partner and I can see from the glint in your eyes you do, you be the first to say sorry that's It why ? Because that's what committed spouse do
You take great pride in being the first because you are so firm in your own sense, that you don't feel any loss of pride if you say sorry and still be strong
you can say sorry and retain your dignity and respect, you will say sorry because you are sorry
You should be there first to say sorry because you are at wrong no matter what the argument is about. arguing is what you're saying sorry for. Never mind what it was about, you are saying sorry first because you're noble, kind generous in spirit dignified, mature, sensible and good. I know I know , gosh we have to be all these things and still say sorry tough call, tall order.
just do it and see how good it makes you feel. The view is always fantastic from the moral high ground
saying sorry has many benefits, even if it does stick in your throat a little not only does it give you the moral advantage, but it also diffuses tension, get rid of bad feelings and clears the air. Chance are that if you say sorry first, they will probably be humbled into apologizing also maybe.
Always remember you are not apologizing for the sin or crime or faux pas you have committed - you are apologizing for being so immature to have argued in the first place.
Apologizing for losing your rag, apologizing for forgetting rules , apologizing for being boorish or argumentative or stubborn or rude or childish or whatever. You can come out of your room now
we can say sorry and retain our dignity and Respect ,
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