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Everyone of us perceive love differently. Most people love because of something they see to be a necessity might be Money, Highly intellectual, even beauty. Most people fall in love just because the guy is handsome and the lady is beautiful. Most people fall in Love because the guy is just caring and gentle.
Talking about Conditional and unconditional love, this shows how people differently express love and affection to each other. Conditional love entails when people show love and affection based on requirements and expectations. You will get to hear someone say "I love him because he is intelligent or I Love him or her because he or she has money and he or she can meet my needs. That's the essence in which love and affection is shown by most people. While Unconditional love is the kind of love given without a requirement or condition. It is the purest form of love and affection expressed towards one another.
Do you Love conditionally or Unconditionally and why?
Personally i Love unconditionally. I feel if I enter into a love relationship with expectations I might be disappointed and end up hurting. The purest form of love is an unconditional love getting to love someone truly even when in reality there. Is nothing to love about the person. One of the times my friends have kind of teased me as to why I will be loving someone that does not have enough money to take care of me. That they can never love a man that does not have enough money to take care of them. And I am like money should not be a reason for love. Most relationships have crumbled because the guy did not have enough money to take care of the girl. I am not saying that if you have money you should not give to your partner at least no matter how small you have. It makes them happy and feel pampered. Men too need to be pampered by the women. They also need the women's money. Though we women have made it look like it is only the men that should have money to take care of the women. The issue I am emphasizing on is that we should not just place a condition for loving because of money or other things we find as a necessity. We should always love freely, every other thing will follow suit as it goes.
Which kind of love do you think is best and what form of love have you given out or received in your romantic endeavours so far?
Unconditional love is the purest form of love and affection shown to one another. It is a kind of love given freely. It involves loving and accepting someone even with their flaws and imperfections. This kind of Love is consistent and stable and it doesn't fluctuate. This particular love involves giving love wholeheartedly without expecting something in return. Unconditional love fosters a healthier relationship. People are loved, accepted and valued for who they truly are and not for what they have. Those that love unconditionally have nothing to really worry about have no expectation and no fear of rejection for not meeting the expectation of the partner.
So far I have given out unconditional love and I have received the same. I tend to give out unconditional love because conditional love leads to stress, pressure and a sense of inadequacy if the conditions or expectations are difficult to meet. Loving unconditionally fosters a healthy and a more sustainable relationship.
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