Life is full of uncertainties, difficulties, pains, experiences, joys, life itself and death, what would be the need to want to control or have it in your hand to do what you like to with it? I guess that is why we can't decide when we are born or when to die. We just live through life's journey like sojourners traveling to where they really belong to.
I won't say I've had it easy all my life but I also can't count myself among the many I've seen who had it and are still having it really rough in their lives. Where life throws one at, one is bound to learn something from it if they choose to.
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I've heard and kept a lot of life lessons but from all my experiences growing up, I've come to learn that time and chance happens to everyone giving birth to the quote I've always used for my life's journey.
It can only get better
The sun shines and the rain fall on everyone, I think that is more than enough reason to know that one is no different from the other in the sight of our creator so whatever can't be achieved now can be achieved later. What I can't do or become now, I can do or become it later because... It can only get better from where I am.
No, it doesn't work that way all the time but that is why it's a lesson don't you think? You can't get everything you want, it is how life is designed and we've got to appreciate it that way. From my experiences, it gets better when it is for my own good even though I never see it that way. We do know that sometimes "We want things that we don't know won't work for us", life has a way of choosing right for us when we let it.
In my studies, I've seen how I progress from ignorance to knowledge and to sharing that knowledge to others which in return keeps me grounded more in those learnings and help me become a better person... Yeah, it can only get better.
I have known well enough to not want what is beyond my reach and unsure of what exactly it will do in my life, I try my best to only want what I can pray to God Almighty for. It's hard to kneel and ask for a car so you could be like your neighbors who keeps showing off their cars, a few might still pray for such but it's almost certain they won't get until they've changed their mindset. But with wanting what is good and in line with God, it can only get better.
Here are few things for you to have in mind with this quote of mine
- See every difficult time as a passing time.
- Don't waste time in thinking of when it will ever get better
- Utilize your time to doing what is good for you and stay hopeful
With hope, believe and self happiness, it can only get better. There will be more puzzles/problems to solve in the future, but it will get better after it... Keep this in mind, says the one who the quote has helped a lot.