When it comes to society teaching, and there rules the longest, and most of the backlash, usually full heavily on the female.
Growing up in a country like mine Niger, where there is a general saying of **no be one person dey train pikin **meaning, a child is not only trained by just his or parent,and when it comes to this training in the female child, the don't are endless.
The don't I would hundred and one present agree with a few of them, but other, like a million and one few should be trashed, because tell me why originally female child was not allowed to go to school because there duties where to look after the house and have children, as noble as they make it sound, i would like to believe those ladies, had something that if not restricted and bounded to house wife duties they would like to push for.
It takes the strongest in heart to overlook there mothers advise on there wedding day, just before recently the most given advice to a newly wedded lady was endure hmmm the lady where told to endure and keep there homes together, while the men where allowed to be men, and this advice have sent a lot of women to an early grave,and the once that are not dead are a shadow of themselves,why? Because there are trying to keep there home together, because there don't want to be called the women with a broken home.
Will even as there is a parable mostly said by our elders that **what an elder see while setting a younger person can not see even if they climb the tallest tree ** I would like to say, right now that as much as there advice are helpful because of the experience, there have had,we the youth to an extent know a bit better now, because I have also seen enough to only nod to that kind of advice, I am not a feminist but I will say to anyone who care to listen that a woman place is not in the kitchen, because a man can not do it all.
You can't tell me as a graduate ,of an educational part I want to school so I can put to practice and make ends meet through it that because I'm married to you as a man I should drop everything just to clean cook wash and pop out child as well follow your lead because you have the tittle of my husband well my dear you need a mad and a surrogate mother.
As much as I would love to sit pretty at home and be oga's wife meaning rich man wife I also want to be a rich wife have my own money before I marry so I can fill up my husband short coming when need be,I am break out of the cultureal believe that it the work of only the man to provide for the home, no wonder the men die quicker cause the work All there life with no help to provide for his home.
Well culture and society, I would be among the women that split the bills, 80/20 with my husband, what I can't do 50/50 and still cook,clean and pop babies, 🤣 that has to do