Fighting alone is hard, isn’t it? I would like to tell you to imagine the inner you without your parents, family, neighbours, friends, relatives, enemies and foes, working mates or fellow passengers for a certain moment.
Imagine for a moment, what would be a life like that?Nobody to collaborate with you, nobody to ask you whether you had your lunch yet or parents nursing and setting you towards positive direction, no good neighbours to assist you in times of danger.
Would that sound good to you in the times of seclusion and loneliness?
Will you be able to make up your life without them?
Can it be possible to survive with self reliability?
Now, I asked you these questions to have a thought experiment in your mind, for sinking those scenes inside your mind for a better grasp of the actual happening when you face these challenges. Because, only imagination will create a precise sense of your reasoning and belief.
Apparently, my point of discussion today wasn’t to posit scenario of a tough neighbourhood or the life with empty feelings, loneliness. Rather, I wanted to create contradictory event to pass a decent ground on my point of view.
Its an important matter I would like to tell you, the audience and smart minds of this community.Mostly suitable for the folks who are finding their life petty difficult for a moment with omni directional challenges, with career, with financial crises, with the ongoing situation of shedded jobs,and shrinking face of business markets,and a quarantined self with little space, low economic growth and the warm exhales of the consequences of these things.
I want to try to console you to be calm at this very moment, its quite understandable for me, because you are not alone, c'mon, I have also faced the same situation and great depression myself, so because I become sympathetic to you for that.
I dont have any Idea about which age group you belong, when you are reading my writings I suppose you are in the midst of youth age, in the times of rising youth and early thirties or mid of it.
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Its a time of remaking life from a much broader perspective. All the responsibility solely lies on your shoulder for steering your life to a safe and peaceful direction.
Here comes the question of becoming self reliant, self -dependable, self -sufficience etc, these terms and words you have pretty much heard and felt deep in your heart for a long duration.
Some despises and some passive insults for not contributing much for the family, or not been able to construct the dignified status with cars and big house for your family.
You sometimes bore grudge against these negative comments and despises.
Exactly the same thing I wanted to tell you, you have all the ingredients of the society,good family, friends of high class with plenty wealth and abundant resources and a sound life, but you somehow lack all of it. You dont have any luxury car, big house, hand to mouth income, no" worth of salt "salaried job, you are to hear insults from all of those people, then you always think of building yourself up, one thing you want to become is self reliant, the only goal of your life.
Learning how to become self reliant is hard, but its worth it. Why do lots of people dont succeed in life?
Does this question make you think in life? Yes, not all the people become successful because then simply the success would lose its value. You have to do something different from others, something exceptional setting of work, thinking how to think from a critical angle, doing others fail to do, achieving the thing,others dont find to collect guts to achieve. Well,thats the recipe you need to know to prepare the most delicious dish, then,the culinary design has to be sublime.
We all need to learn how to be self -reliant, no matter how tough it seems like at first glance. It can be taking all the control of your life by your own, doing all the possible works to manage a job, choosing a career that opens up space for your self esteem and creating values on which you could show to the society that you are successful in achieving to be the master of your fate.
I want to tell you that,self employment is also another vital step of becoming self dependent. If you are successful creating your own job, making your bread & butter with your own effort, I guarantee you that you will taste the amazing feeling of freedom and a successful guy with the ability to grow in self strength then surely or ultimately, you will get to reach yourself to the aspired benchmark of self -reliability.
Thank you for reading my story.
Have a nice day 👍🎯