We, in our lives, while we act on our work, try to finish our work to achieve our desired goal, always think of building a positive growth and march towards our goal. But, my friends, many times we cant keep our work in good manner,thus sometimes leading to frustration and grief. It happens inside our mind that we cant control our emotions and get disheartened as the day passes.
I have also faced down such tremendous mental pressure and frustration that kept me to be cynical and gave serious pain and harsh feeling.
I know, it happens very frequently in our lives, at the times when we want to take charge of our lives, but feel rather being charged by someone else. I would rather not blame you or me for this. Its everyone's problem. Nobody in this earth has the complete control of his or her life.
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In the process, I would like to say to you about the ways we can make it a matter of practice and devotive work.
I say to you, its not a tough thing to get in life. For this we need to have a belief that we will be successful in doing that, plus a steadfast effort to get the objective done in the upcoming days to come.Working towards that mastery of self control is required for our professional life because that's what will save us from doing mishaps and enable us to be able to let loose from comolexity of work and mutual relationship. Let me go details about the topic for better understanding.
Suppose, you are in an adult relationship with someone.Now, you want that relationship to last long for the betterment of your life, to furnish it more beautifully and organize it to live a happy life.Here, if you get caught in a scenario that is unexpected, or got adjoined in a mutual dispute and reach at the level of fighting and quarrelling, you need to know how to be smart enough to get out of the quarrel with the loved ones, by evading from the situation and thus learning from the experience to have a better grasp of the unexpected situations from your life.
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Again,if you are in an office, you want to live a sound life by working tirelessly and by solving the problems of your clients and making nice performances to improve in the sector.
But,somehow if you have to bargain with your customer and client to get things done,behave roughly or be victimized to any misconduct, the art of self control has to be executed for the sake of the welfare of your mind.
So,I think, you guys have already knew the topic I wanted to hit today.You know,Life is more dramatic than a drama itself. So,you never know what you might have to face in your life.But,if you want to be smart and little intelligent,then you have to act smartly and soundly.
First rule is, dont be angry with anyone in your life.Anger is the root of all evils that human do unconsciously.In anger, you start to lose the balance of your conscience and act like a beast.So,first try to tackle it, and if once you get angry, try to normalize that.
One thing that can be done to reduce anger is to let loose the affair for a moment and set free to walk a bit in the outside. You can visit to beautiful places and wander for a time. It works,I saw that.
Seccond rule is to cultivate the habit of politeness in your mind.If you are polite and gentle, then less people would be around you to cause harm,or with an ill motive. Even, if you get to reach there in quarrel situation, then your politeness will save you from that.
Finally, I can say that, learning how to master your self control will surely bring positive result in your life. If you can mould your life through using the principles and directions that I gave you,then the status of the mind would be pretty cool and mental soundness will follow you..