We born as introvert and extrovert. So, it's nearly impossible to become the opposite overnight. It's in our genetics. Our parents are merely responsible for that. But as we all know this extream personality temperament can cause some problems in our life. So it's very common to look forward to changing our personality. But the question is 'Is that even possible?'
Being introvert has its own benefits. But when we mix with the real world or even in our profession we often notice that extroverts are paying off more. And we want to inharite that. So, how can we do that?
- The first thing is we have to understand that it will take a huge amount of time to change these behavioral traits. We need to be patient and should not give up. Otherwise, we will find ourselves in the same position without any improvement.
Then we have to point out what we actually want. Like any relationship goal through it or any professional goal. We need to prepare our plan and the next steps on the basis of this.
Third is the most important thing. We need to be 'open-minded'. We have to point out those things that we usually don't like as an introvert but we should adopt that to be an extrovert. Like speaking with strangers, showing affection ie.
Demonstrate what you have learned. Act as an extrovert. There's nothing like as helpful as this point.
Learn and adopt from the extroverts and from other people around you. Notice what others want to see in you. Try to adopt that new behavior.
Lastly don't lose hope.
Being an introvert sometimes sucks. We can't express ourselves. It makes everything difficult for us. But we have to find out the way outs to get the benefits to form our life. We need to be a little strategic, have to hold more patience to adopt new things, practice those new things and I hope that we can see a change in a few days. Researchers say that it's not impossible to become an extrovert from an introvert. So, have patience and practice to be an extrovert.
I hope it helps a little bit!