There is a lady, 29 years old, a graduate, but into hair braiding due to a lack of job opportunities. She's having a problem selecting a partner. She currently has different people wanting to marry her, but there are things confusing her about which one to choose.
The first guy:
This guy, let's call him Mr. A, has been dating this lady for four years. Mr. A doesn't earn much , he earns N100,000 per month but isn't generous, giving only about 5%. The two of them agreed to date without having intimacy, but recently, Mr. A has been asking for intimacy, which the lady has refused. Now, the guy has threatened to call off their plans to get married. Right now, she's getting double-minded also because she doesn’t want to give in to the man.
Second Guy (Mr. B):
This guy has money and spends generously on her. She likes the guy, but she found out that he cheats. He had intimacy with the lady's friend when the lady refused to give in to his demand too. The guy has been begging for forgiveness, claiming he has changed, but she’s not sure about giving room to any reasonable relationship with him.
Third Guy (Mr. C):
This guy lives abroad and has money. He also spends a lot on her. They haven't seen each other; they only talk on the phone. Moreover, the guy has a 5-year-old child in Nigeria but has nothing to do with the mother of the child anymore —they are divorced.
The lady is confused and doesn't know which one to choose.
I heard this in a podcast I joined some days ago and I want to get your take.
Thanks.