As long as we live on earth we will always be encountering one problem to another. Anyone who claims to always be having a smooth ride without encountering any difficulties, bad roads or even rough times, observe that person well and back away from that person because that person is a liar. There are no smooth roads anywhere in life. Life is full of difficulties and challenges, even in some cases when it seems you've been favoured and everything is working out well for you, something else will come up in order to destroy you. Sometimes it comes in the form of temptation and this temptation most times comes from our friends, especially those set of individuals in your life you know you can't say no to.
I also figured out that in life some people who happen to hurt your feelings didn't just plan it all out to work against you or even become the worst devil you had ever seen, No. A lot of people in today's world are good people, they are good people in the sense that they are good in many things they do with no intention of causing harm in any form or even hurting anyone's feelings but it is terrible what we see in this world. When they say good things or good people don't last, it's simply because the good ones have a lot of things to shoulder, which includes both the good and the ugly.
The truth is that temptation comes to everyone in life but in most cases the good ones among us humans are the ones who have the tendency of avoiding it but in cases where they don't, they get stuck in the mud. Most good people are not street wise and even those who are sometimes get stuck in one bad thing or another though it may take time.
Being street wise is a word people mostly use on the streets, when I grew older I found out the people of the street had a different language.
The good ones sometimes in their good heart may want to convey a message or information but sometimes don't know the best way or approach to use and in some cases their messages get misinterpreted because of their ways of expression.
I also know of a man whom I've grown very close to who later spoiled the heart of a good woman by his mistake. He truly cares about this woman and has great things in mind to do for her in future since there was nothing to present at the moment. Things were going fine until the moment the man fell in love with the woman's younger relative.
It's also important to know that the man and the first woman weren't in a relationship neither were they dating. In Fact they were even more related and see themselves as brother and sister even though not directly related by blood neither do they bear the same family name but their ancestral homes where not far apart from each other.
When the man fell in love with the younger woman related to the other woman. The only thing the elderly young woman was against was sexual relationships and always made out time to once in a while to advise them things were going on fine until one day It happened.
The thing the woman has so much talked about has happened and he was bitter with the good young man that he had betrayed her trust. She ended up saying it was fine the way it happened and left. Could it be she will add him up among the many people she had told the young man that had broken her heart and left her or maybe among those who had treated her badly in life? No one knows but the one who never had any bad intentions but better intentions all of a sudden became one who is perceived to be of bad intentions.
Worst of all , the one whose feelings are hurt go about telling others about how the man has hurt her feelings, no one knows but only her. In a situation where that happens, the man who had kept her secrets safe and didn't bring her out to the table of discussion will suddenly be one who others start perceiving as bad and terrible.
So you see, sometimes the good is perceived as bad.