GOOD PARENTAL EMULATION.
Like my Dad always say "A home isn't a home except when built on the foundation of love, trust and respect. Don't get this three vital aspect twisted, because when there's no LOVE respect and trust has nothing to do in such family. That's to confirm love is truly the greatest.
Love can't be forged or duplicate, it must be true and genuine coming within the heart and mind automatically.
That's why most times it's our parents that show's unconditional love to us.
Let me give you guys some details of how my parent relationships, their management even with how they handle issues and how they interact and express love is quite simple. My parents make sure they handle issues privately not disclosing it to the public because they believed every issues can be resolved within themselves, I grew up to love such disciplined act because it made I and my siblings never witness difference or disagreement between them.
That way it made me believe they were perfect and spotless in life. Little did I know maturity, love and self respect was playing major roles in my family. These aforementioned acts was genuinely a show of respect because as a man or head of a family it's not always you're right, rendering a listening ear and attention from your wife is vital.
In the part of management, understanding each other was a flex, they both created an amazing routine and maintenance scheme for the family, base on the kind of job my dad did, he wasn't always present, it was more like a contract work, on like my mom who was a government teacher, making her available all daily, so my mom took the baton and kept the family affairs running like the exact way my dad was handling the family.
They would be a time my dad would call my mom asking if there's still any bill he needs to cover up my mom would say she had done that, so this makes my dad had peace of mind and relaxation, because he and my mom stick to their management plan.
I and my siblings were noticing all these and learning every steps because some day we will be parents also.
These behavior and pattern goals was to train us right, teach us about love and respect amongst each other as siblings because we will someday get married, same way we treat our siblings same way we will treat our partners. I had never heard of a man beating up a woman in front their kids as at in the early 2000s or 1900s, but today it's a common thing in our cities and environment. This parental disorderliness affects the children a lot.
I've seen where the dad in a family is an extroverted individual while the wife is an introvert, but they seems not to really understand their difference and blend it together so it won't be visible to the public. I would say they both lack comprehension and strategies. They can coexist but one doesn't want to open up or understand the other.
My parents partnership and companionship is a very healthy one, which I'm sure it will take them to old age.