Hello everyone, hope you have a blessful day. Today I write one of my deepest fears of losing.
Life is like a journey filled with opportunities, challenges and uncertainties, everyone person has that one thing they are afraid of.my is the fear of losing In life, this fears pushes me to work really hard but also fills my heart with anxiety.success may be a different thing to others but to me is about about achieving me dreams an goals. Just the thought of losing terrifies me because I don't want to look back and see regrets ,if I had known I should have done this or that. Though this fear is not entirely negative it's just as a reminder not to give up but to fight harder.
Nowadays you barely have anyone to help , everyone is cut up with his or her problem, sometimes having the fear of losing even if there is nobody there to help me is a big deal. Because the fear of losing is a tie to my self worth. If I fail ,will I still believe in myself ,will others still treat me with respect? This questions in my head hurts me giving me the fear to prove my self and other that am capable of greatness goals to success is heavy,and the fear of falling shot terrifies me
Fear can both be a motivator and a destroyer. On one hand it pushes me to study harder,work extra time and stay disciplined. Just the thought of failure keeps me from being lazy, because I know that every time wasted is a step away from achieving success. Fear also has a dark side. It makes me doubt myself.what if I am not good enough,what if I put in all my efforts and I still fail. These thoughts create stress and anxiety for me making it hard for me to focus. Often getting me lost in thinking which sometimes leads to sleepless nights,and the pressure makes me want to give up.
Even with the fear, my desire to progress in life is stronger. This desire of winning keeps me going every small victory like learning new skills or overcoming a challenge gives me hope. It reminds me that success is achievable if I keep moving forward. I always dream of having a life where I am not controlled by fear but driven by purpose and passion.I know to overcome fear is not easy and fear will always be a part of life ,but that doesn't mean I give fear a chance to win. To be able to overcome my fears I had to work on myself.I had to work on my mindset. Every mistakes teaches me something new and helps me grow, always having a positive mindset reminding myself of the strength and past success to keep me motivated. Success doesn't happen overnight. I build my confidence and set achievable goals.
In summary I may not know what the feature holds, but I know that to keep fighting every day is an opportunity to move closer to my goals.they fear of losing in life is something everybody feels. But it shouldn't stop us from achieving our dreams. My fear of losing will not disappear, but neither will my determination to succeed.
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