Hello everyone, and a very big happy Sunday to you all,today I write on why don't we always get what we want. And as you read I pray we all have a blessfull Sunday
Everyone has desires, dreams and goals. From childhood to adulthood, there is this passion we have whether it's being a toy,a good job, good grades or a happy relationship. Yet no matter how hard we try we always don't get what we desire. This can be frustrating and confusing leaving us with wonder's,why do things not work out as planned. The truth is that many factors influence it whether our wishes come true or not. Some are within our control while other are not understanding these reasons can help us accept life disappointment and focus on what truly matters.one major reason why we don't always get what we want is that the world is changing, it's may be money or even love not everyone can have what they desire for example if two friends apply for the same job only one may get the job or when many students want to attend a top university only few may be accepted. This means that even with hard work, some people will still miss out simply because there isn't enough to go around.
Sometimes what we want are unrealistic things. Some people may dream of becoming a famous musician, but they lack talent or dedication needed.while others might wish for endless wealth without putting in effort,when our dreams and desire don't match reality disappointment is inevitable, it is important to set achievable goals and understand that success often requires time, skill and persistence. While luck plays a role in success, effort is equally needed and important.Many of us wish for something but don't take the necessary steps to achieve it. For example a student who wants to become something great in the future, you find he or she is not serious with their studies. Yes hard work doesn't always guarantee success, but it increases the chance of getting what we want. Life is unpredictable , you never know what comes, it may be a natural disasters, Heath problem, economic crisis or maybe an unexpected event can disrupt our plans, someone can save money for years just to buy a house, only to lose their job or someone might want to travel for a competition ,and end up being sick.
Luck plays a big role in life. Some people are born into wealthy families while others struggle financially, some meet the right person at the right time, while others face loneliness. One thing in life is that even with hard work,luck still determines success or failure. Accepting this can help us stay humble when we succeed. since we don't always get what we want ,it important to learn to accept disappoinment, disappoinment is crucial and necessary, instead of focusing on what we lack, we should appreciate what we have. Gratitude increase happiness and help us see the good in ourselves, even when things don't go as plan.
In summary life doesn't always give us what we want and it's okey weather due bad timing, limited resources,personal limitations or just bad luck. Disappoinment is a part of life instead of feeling like a loser, we should focus on what we can control “ our efforts, attitude and preservance by making achievable and realistic goals, working hard and staying patient, we increase our chances of success. And when things don't go out way acceptance and gratitude help us to find peace. After all sometimes not getting what we want leads us to someone even better.
Thanks for taking your time to read.