Making Generosity a Part of Your Life
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was a huge success.
Generosity is a virtue that goes beyond simply giving; it is a lifestyle, a mindset, and a way of making the world a better place. It is about recognizing the needs of others and taking deliberate steps to meet those needs, no matter how small. Many people desire to help but often feel overwhelmed, thinking that their contributions might not be significant. However, the truth is that making generosity a part of your life starts with little steps.
Start generosity Small but Stay Consistent
You don’t have to be wealthy or very rich to be generous. It begins with the little things—sharing a meal with someone in need, offering a helping hand to a struggling neighbor, or even taking time to listen to someone who needs encouragement. When you make these small acts of kindness a habit, they become part of your identity. The key is consistency. Generosity should not be a one-time act but something you incorporate into your daily or monthly routine.
For instance, when we started our Saturday, March 1st program, our goal was to feed 100 widows and orphans. At first, it seemed like a simple initiative,
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but it turned out to be a huge success. Seeing the joy and gratitude on the faces of the beneficiaries encouraged us to do more. We didn’t stop at that; we took the next step by organizing another program in Shabu, Lafia, where Mama Lami and Mama Martin Irene expressed their passion for helping widows and orphans. They took it upon themselves to expand the vision, making the Lafia program even bigger
than what we had in Akwanga.
Money, food items and clothes were shared to the window and the orphan s.
This is how generosity grows—you take one step, and it inspires others to join. Mama Lami and Mama Martin Irene saw the impact of our initiative and decided to ensure that this program happens every month. That is the power of starting small!
Get Lost in Doing generosity.
One of the most fulfilling aspects of generosity is when you get lost in doing it. This means that you no longer see it as a duty but as a joy and passion. When I started gathering widows and orphans for this program, some people assumed I was a political aspirant, preparing for the 2027 House of Assembly election. But I made it clear to them that my intention was not political—I was simply doing what I love, what I have a passion for.
Generosity should be driven by passion, not by the desire for recognition or personal gain. When you genuinely care about helping others, your motivation comes from within, not from the applause of people. If you allow yourself to truly embrace the act of giving, it becomes a natural part of your life.
Involve Others in the journey of generosity and Create a Chain of Impact.
One beautiful thing about generosity is that it inspires others. Just like Mama Lami and Mama Martin Irene saw the impact of our program and decided to expand it, your acts of kindness can create a ripple effect. If you want to make generosity a part of your life, don’t do it alone—encourage others to join you.
When people see the positive impact of giving, they are often moved to contribute in their own way. Whether it is through donating food, volunteering, or supporting financially, generosity grows when people come together. The more people get involved, the greater the impact.
Make Generosity a Lifestyle even though they call you names.
Many people think of charity as something they do occasionally—during festive seasons, birthdays, or special events. But true generosity goes beyond special occasions. It is about integrating kindness into your daily life.
Look for opportunities to help every day.
Be intentional about setting aside something to give, whether it is money, time, or even just a kind word.
Build relationships with those you help so that your generosity is not just about handouts but about real support and care.
If we can commit to touching people’s lives regularly, we create a society where kindness becomes the norm. Imagine if more people took up initiatives like feeding widows and orphans, providing scholarships for needy children, or helping struggling families. The world would be a much better place!
The Reward of Generosity is great.
Even though I said generosity should not be done for personal gain, I want you to also know that there is always a reward for those who give selflessly. It may not always come in material form, but the joy, fulfillment, and peace that come from helping others are priceless. Additionally, generosity often leads to unexpected blessings—doors open, opportunities arise, and relationships are built.
More importantly, generosity leaves a lasting legacy. The people we help today will remember our kindness, and they may one day be in a position to help others as well. Just as Mama Lami and Mama Martin Irene were inspired to continue the initiative, many others will also be motivated to make a difference in their communities.
In Conclusion, lam saying that,
making generosity a part of your life is one of the best decisions you can make. Start small, remain consistent, and allow yourself to get lost in the joy of giving. Don’t wait for the perfect time—begin with what you have and where you are. And most importantly, inspire others to join you. I am @ekojah saying that thank you for reading through my blog.
We can all make the world a better place, one act of kindness at a time. Don't give up