Since when I was growing up as a child I heard about this quote " destiny can never be denied but can only be delayed" and I just loved it. When I grew up and started experiencing life and it struggles, the quote became my strength and morals.
There are things I've started and at the end it stops on the way. The same way there are things I wish I could have done but couldn't be able to do it due to one reason or the other. This life has it struggles and challenges we passed through everyday. And at times I tried so hard to overcome some challenges but seems all efforts no avail.
It so painful and hurting knowing all strength are gone. You will do and tried all you know and could be able to do a particular thing but couldn't do it successfully. You are bringing out your best but looks like your best is not enough. You must have had plans, vision and dreams you want to achieve in life, but working towards it is difficult and challenges.
At times I felt like giving up, but each time I remembered " destiny can never be denied but can only be delayed" there's a kind of joy and new level of strength that will envelope me immediately. I will feel better and strengthens knowing my destiny and future is bright and hopefully one-day I will reach my destiny destination.
Especially when you see your friends and colleagues are excelling and succeeding in life in their places of work, family, relationship and and other relevant experience and you are still struggling and stick stagnated, you're stuck in one place for long, no any reasonable or tangible thing to show up for. You will just reason life as if there's nothing else left for you but failure.
Seeing your friends getting different and well paying jobs and you are struggling to even get one single job, it so frustrating and disheartening. Seeing your colleagues getting married and you're still single, and not just single but not even in a stable relationship. Can u imagine the pain? Yes, very annoying and painful.
But in the mist of this challenges and struggles, I found comfort and strength in knowing my tomorrow is secured. I might not have good well paying job today, or even married yet but I know and believe someday I will happily have a good job and get married.
Therefore, in the face of experiencing all those frustrations and setbacks, I will tell myself that I might not have those things I needed now like my friends and colleagues had gotten theirs but someday I strongly believe I will certainly have them.
I know my destiny can be delay but never denied has become my favorite quote became of frustration and setbacks I have experienced. My hope is alive and healthy, my destiny is a sure thing for achievement because my destiny can never be denied but only can be delayed.