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Relationship red flags are signs or signals that shows whether one should continue with the relationship or not. These are signals that shouldn't be taken for granted because they have potential to ruin relationships.
There are many relationships that have been destroyed today due to the kind of red flags displayed. What seems to be red flag for one might be some thing for another however might be some thing good for the next person.
Why must you be in a relationship where you keep struggling just to maintain status with your partner? Why would you pretend whereas things aren't aligning but fake living wouldn't allow you? Why must you be in a relationship where your partner doesn't care so much about you neither does he have any form of affection towards you? Definitely such relationship would end in dreadlocks.
It's expedient for one to pay close attention to any form relationship because there are always signals to show how it might end. Imagine a lady that was dating a guy for a while. Infact I asked her personally she said yes this is the love of her life. Few months down the line the guy started molesting her. He had no regard for her even though a dine hasn't been paid on her yet. He flogged her such that her mother had to take her to the hospital for medication.
My big question was is it that she didn't see this coming? I believe there were indicators but she couldn't pay attention to it.
In this post, I would like to share things that one need to consider in a relationship. Not everything can be condoned no matter how much you might have loved the person.
Some of these include;
- Lack of trust. This is a fundamental thing I have come to realize in most relationships. Any love that can't be trusted shouldn't be hold with any regards. Personally I dislike lack of trust, why would I be in a relationship that I can't trust my partner? Is it when we married before I would begin to trust her? Hmmm this is a visible pointer as far as I am concerned.
- Communication breakage is another red flags that shouldn't be joked with. I could remember asking a young man last year when he was preparing for marriage. I asked him how often do you communicate with your partner? He clearly told me that it has been hell for him. He is just managing the relationship to work by force but all efforts proved abortive. She couldn't reciprocate same gesture rather pilled up excuses with her phone spoiled etc. Finally the guy couldn't continue with the relationship again.
Conclusion
Red flags are pointers to the kind of marriage that one would end up having if not properly dealt with. It's not everything that one could condone in the name of love or no matter how you loved such thing.