Marriage is a lifelong commitment and sacrifice between two people who found themselves and fell in love with each other. Meanwhile, there are different types of marriages that we can talk about. Traditional marriage, religion, and court marriage. I once heard about white marriage before, even though I don't know what that is all about.
I've seen people get married before, even my sisters. My sister did a court marriage and a religious marriage. That's the most common one, though. I don't really know about traditional marriages. But I guess there are tribes that love to do that. For now I'm single, and I can't say this is the marriage I'm going to love to do. Well, first it will depend on what my fiancée and my family want. Because if it happens to be about me.
I don't really like too much noise; I love everything low-key. That is not because I don't have money to do it but because I don't really like noise. But since it's not about me alone, I need to consider the interests of other people too. In that fact I remembered when I did my vocational freedom and my graduation 🎓 I had to tell my boss that I don't like noise, but marriage is always different anyways since it's just once in a lifetime.
Another thing as a single person is that I like to always advise myself, and I will not do more than I can afford. What do I mean by that? There's nothing bad in doing all these weddings if you have money, but then what about after the wedding? What do I want to be eating, and what about my family? Well, you can say it's a poor mentality, but that's just what I used to think about. I will not do something that will make me spend lots of money on marriage, and at the end of everything, there will not be anything for me and my wife to eat.
In a situation where I have twenty million naira, I personally would like to use fifteen million as what I can keep after the wedding and use five million naira to do whatever wedding we are planning to do.Talking about the wedding I like to go for, well, religious marriage will be my number one opinion.
To some extent I believe in religion, and since it's what I practiced, I would like to go for what people know me as, mean there are so many things that are attached to the religion of marriage. Should I talk about the spiritual aspect of it? And what you believe in should be what always comes first. Another one I can also go for which I don't know if I will do, is court marriage.
This is so good because, it's good to be certified and be known by the authorities, we all know that court marriage are backed up with some policies which can be useful for both parties and the certificate has lots of benefits.Apart from these two, I do not have any other marriage that I have interest in.
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