Hello hivers, welcome to my blog.
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Am here to share my view on a topic "Red flags in relationship".
Man in general is a relational being, therefore a man cannot live in isolation,in this context I'll be talking about love relationship between people of opposites gender. The word red flag in the other hand implies " danger" and from all indication one needs to pay care attention when such red flags are manifesting.
It's quite unfortunate that many a times persons in love are blinded by love and ignored these "red flags" flashing to their faces and then venturing into a lifelong journey full of caricature and lots of regrets. They say "love is blind" but is that really true??
Furthermore, let check some these habits I personally consider as red flags
- No or little commitment# the relationship is one sided, he/she doesn't reciprocate the love, maybe it use to be mutual but no anymore, my dear please leave
- Doesn't accept corrections and is unteachable# Those people that know all and needed no one to correct or teach them, personally it's a big NO
- Always complained about your going to church and commitment to Jesus# " you too carry this Jesus and church for head" Aaah what do you want me to carry instead?? As a Christian this is a big danger already, so please flee
- Has no respect for elders or humans in general# You watched him/her shouting and treating persons old enough to be their parents, you see how they treat their staff, no single iota of respect. And you're still there? Please go🙄 yes go
- Raises his voice and lifts his hands# someone that react angrily over a little misunderstanding and even treating to beat you,oh he even did 🤔 he will kill you in marriage please run
- When communication becomes scarce# communication is a very major tools for a flourishing relationship, but when effective communication is scarce please check again
To mention but a few, I will love to stop here.
In conclusion, it's unwise to see danger and still venture on it,a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage, relationship is not marriage, you can trust God to start all over again.please walkout if things become soar for the sake of your peace.
Thank you