Hello brethren and welcome to a new week
As humans,there's always a high level of expectations when ever we are being promise a particular thing.
Generally most people like promises but a fulfilled promise is the best promises.
For it's better to promise not, than to promise and fail .
From this message,God does not want us to take a vow which cannot be fulfilled by us for it is biblically it is wrong.
Ecclesiastes 5 : 4
When thou vowest a vow unto God, defer not to pay it; for he hath no pleasure in fools: pay that which thou hast vowed.
As parents we may sometimes be tempted to make promises that we can't fulfill or forced to be fulfilled.
A surprise is better than a fake promise or a promise fulfill by force.
There are dangers to fail promises
Through the scriptures.
Proverbs 13 : 12
Hope deferred maketh the heart sick: but when the desire cometh, it is a tree of life.
When hope is deferred or when promises are delayed or unfulfilled it makes the heart sick,this can cause great pains to the expectant and in the sight of God it is not good.
Therefore has believers let us not make promises that we can't keep for tomorrow isn't certain.
Proverbs 27 : 1
Boast not thyself of to morrow; for thou knowest not what a day may bring forth.