Sometimes we are surrounded by people, amidst everyone but still, there is a strange peace in the heart There is noise everywhere, there are smiles, and people keep laughing, but there is a feeling of space inside the heart and it seems that even when we are there, we are not there I too have gone through such moments many times and once I went to a party and there was very light music. People were dancing, and talking I was also among them, but still I was standing quietly in a corner I had a cold drink in my hand and there were thousands of people in front of me but it seemed that no one was my own and that feeling is there A kind of loneliness which becomes pain even amid a crowd.
There are people around us, everyone has their own life. There are stories, but there is less truth in them. Everyone makes their marks. Everyone has learned to smile. Even if a storm is raging in the heart, everyone says they are fine. Even if they are very sad from the inside social media has also made this feeling deeper. Everyone posts their best photos. Everyone sees that their life is perfect. The real thing is that they are dependent on the screen. At night, when everything is closed, then loneliness takes over. One understands the pain of being alone even while being amidst people.
Earlier there were few people but relationships were deep. Today there are people everywhere but there is no real connection. Everyone is busy with their phones, in their work, in the stress of their lives; no one has that much time to understand someone else's pain; to listen to someone from the heart. Often, you may want to talk to someone but don't. It seems who will listen, who will care. Then you start talking to yourself and slowly start suppressing your feelings. You smile, you talk but from inside you are desolate.
Once I was sitting alone in a cafe. There was a coffee in front of me. I had a laptop. I had headphones. Soft music was playing. There were other people too. Everyone was busy with their phones and boy was taking a selfie. A girl was typing. It seemed that everyone was busy but there was no real connection between anyone. We become distant from ourselves. From every emotion, every feeling, from our real self. We have learned to make a difference. We play the game of showing that we live here and that we are strong, but for how long will we keep pretending to be strong? One day or the other our heart will break, one day or the other everything will come out of whack.
Feeling lonely even while being in a crowd is the deepest pain. When there is so much to say but no one to listen. When you always feel that someone should understand, someone should ask how you are feeling, but no one asks, then the insult starts to hurt more and more. Being alone may be a choice but feeling lonely is a helpless feeling. And when you feel this every day, you slowly get away from yourself. You start just surviving. Happiness, peace, comfort, everything goes into words.
In this world, relations are changing because of everything, fast friendships, fast breakups, and fast feelings are also fast but the pain of a mole comes slowly. It remains silent but today it keeps eating from inside. Every time we think that tomorrow we will be fine but tomorrow also the same feeling comes. Talking to someone, telling someone your feelings, crying, writing it down. All these are small things. But they hold a lot of power. When you lighten the burden on your heart then your tarpan gets reduced a little. When someone just listens to you. Without eating anything then it feels that now everything will be real and fine.
Some people think that everything will be fine with party shopping movies. But all this is only temporary. When there is no peace inside your heart, no external thing can make you happy. I want that whoever reads this blog if he too has ever felt lonely on the feet, he should feel that he is not alone. Every person has felt this someday or the other. But it comes to the fore only when we understand this feeling and do not hide it.
Loneliness is a feeling, but it is not always negative. When you understand it, then you come closer to yourself and you feel that now you can understand someone else's loneliness too. Then you can become a good writer. You can become a good friend. You can become a good person. You can get everything in this world. Money, films, followers, likes but if there is not one person to whom you can talk about yourself then everything seems useless. Only a real connection gives the biggest comfort. When you are with someone and without saying anything you can understand what to feel, then that is the real connection.
If someone is feeling this way today, he should understand that he is not wrong. His feelings are his wallet. He just has to talk to his heart. He has to befriend himself. When you befriend yourself, the world seems a little less daunting. In today's world, everything is based on showoff and everyone shows that their life is perfect, but in reality, everyone carries an emptiness inside them. Maybe that's why it takes just a little time to understand someone. Being alone in a crowd is not just a situation. It is a journey. When you understand the journey of reaching yourself along with the journey, then now you do not open yourself up even at a low speed and when you start speaking the truth to yourself, then whether there is a crowd or silence, you never feel alone.
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