It wasn't an easy task for her but she had to follow her mind. Many persons such as her friends, families and well wishers had talk out of points because of her choice of husband.
"She walk to the altar to take an oath (marriage vow) of marrying a Cripple."
The mindset
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Not just doing what people want you to do but what give you joy in life. When i had this statement from the mouth of the bride, i said within me "Nothing will stop this great mindset in her."
Today, people listen to their friends and ruin their relationships or useless their marriages, this is because they were not firmed in their decisions while taking a bold steps to the altar.
According to her speech at the altar, "Many Peron's has questioned me of making this choice, but this was for a great reason". The lady said, today many ladies here won't accept to get married to a Cripple because of pride! But i have kept pride away and accepted to do so today and to worship him with all i have.
As she was still speaking, some young girls who were sitting closed to me, began to talk concerning the marriage. Some of their questions was:
• How will she play love with himp ?
• How will they stroll the street together?
They were saying a lot of things that don't count. This lady has taken her bold step and nothing can make her to turn from that decisions she has made.
The Cripple in question is a graduate and very intelligent. He is an Architectural designer. This lady saw the potentials which this young man posses and this is why she took her decision and stand her ground. Many ladies today don't look at the potentials but look at the bank account and the status of the man and this had turn many marriages into ties.
Prof, as i used to called him, i congratulated him for his decision of taking a wife. Today he can boldly says; I've paid my wife dairy. This is a big challenged to those who had too legs but couldn't have that rich mindset of taking a wife.
In conclusion, take your decision and stand by it while you improve as time goes on. Thank you for your time and also tell us your mindset if you were to be the bride, would you have accepted?