For the third time, we're preparing to move from our current residence, although we don't have a definite date yet.
When April and I got married, we made a decision to live independently rather than staying with either of our parents. That arrangement worked well for us; we opted to rent places while saving money to purchase a lot and build our home there. However, this plan isn't fixed and can adapt based on our family's circumstances.
In the Philippines, strong family bonds are highly valued. April's siblings are leaving home for work, leaving her parents alone. It wouldn't be a concern if they were younger, but they are already in their senior years and on medication.
After discussing it, we agreed that we might move in with April's parents if her brother secures an offshore job—he's already in the application process, and we should have the result in a few months.
My in-laws are thrilled about our potential move (my mom, too, constantly encourages us to stay in our own home). They've even asked a carpenter they know to visit their place and estimate the materials needed to build a small room for us temporarily.
This morning, we spoke with the carpenter and received a list of the items required. I inquired about the first materials to purchase for stocking up, and I was advised to start with the roof. After that, the foundation's wood, hollow blocks, sand, and cement would follow, once we're prepared to begin construction.
He assured us that once he has the materials, the construction will take only about a week, and we'll be ready to move in.
So, our plan is to settle all our bills first, then use our 13th-month pay to start buying some of the materials listed. If that isn't sufficient, we can consider a loan, although the carpenter mentioned it wouldn't be too costly for us.
Even after we move in soon, we'll continue saving for the lot and our permanent home. However, I've come to realize that for our living space, a small lot may suffice. As we grow older, a large house may not be as necessary.
One of our current problems is that the items we've recently purchased might not all fit into the place we're moving to. I anticipate significant planning will be required once we're ready to relocate.
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