Hmmmmmm🤔🤔🤔 I have been kept on my toes several times thanks to @anttn and each and every of his contest topics and one thing I realized about him giving us a such personal and detailed topic is because he wants us to think outside the box and also relating all our personal experiences to the topic discussed and I will boldly say thanks to his prompt I have been making good us of my IQ and also my brain at all times because his contests are always requiring these tools working hand in hand together, hats off boss...
Over the last contests, I had to think about what to write for good 5-7 days which made me drop my entry on the actually deadline date but this time I was able to figure it out within 96 hours and that means 4 days and I think I am ready to share my general and personal experiences with domination but my personal experience is the goal for today...
To be honest I never saw domination in a bad light before not until now and that was thanks to the little research I did on this topic, I have always been in constant and great support of domination because to me I saw it as taking total control of a particular place or geographical location, i never taught of the feelings and emotions of the people who will be dominated in that particular place especially the timid and weak people who are still learning how to speak for themselves and suddenly they got someone who is outspoken and therefore he or she came with a dominating spirit, in that aspect those people will never learn how to grow and they will feel oppressed and freedom deprived...
After pondering on the topic all week I realized domination can either be seen positively or negatively depending on the person involved and also his or her way of exercising dominance over the environment...
Speaking further on domination, I got a very rigid definition from my dictionary, it defined domination as the ability of having strong personality and influence over the not just their environment but also the people around them...
Hmmmmmm, imagine one taking total control of the weaklings around them, making mighty and powerful decisions at all times without considering the feelings and opinions of the involved, one's dominating spirit has just pushed thousands of people into their shells, they will see it as if one has deprived them of the freedom to express themselves for which they will never be happy both the person involved and also themselves...
The negative aspect of domination is the act of trying to rule, influence and take total control of everything around you including the people involved without considering the fact that there are some people who feel intimidated and oppressed by your actions since they expect freedom in their lives but with a dominating spirit such as that, they feel stepped on and ruled over thereby deriving them of that which they want the most which is FREEDOM...
This particular way of exercising domination is not the legitimate way and you can also build domination in a positive manner and that involves taking over a particular place or location totally but not just by yourself but by carrying along all the little and thinnest factors that makes up the whole place with you and therefore teaching them how to dominate over the entire world together, this will make you all to be in equal position still yet, they will see you as a leader because you have decided to take them along by impacting in them the spirit of mass domination over everything in world and from there it keeps on growing and growing for lifetime...
This act of exercising domination will yield oneness, respect, love and communication at all times...
The above illustrations are my general views on domination and now I am going to share my personal experience with domination...
I WAS BORN TO RULE OVER THE WORLD...
Growing up as a child under my parents, I have always been told to go into the world and take total control of it and it obviously means them telling to go out there to dominate...
I grew up to hearing my parents telling me to take over the world that the more I grow, I always wanted to be at the forefront of everything and at first I never considered the feelings and emotions of my other peers because all I wanted to do was to rule over my environment...
Dominating the world came to me in form of always topping my class with good grades, always being active in all subjects, getting acknowledged by all teachers, getting famous both in the school and outside the school, the main message was that let the world talk about me and all my achievements...
At first it was turning out great and interesting , I never understood the depth of what my parents said about taking over the world, i started understanding the word the more as I continued to grow up...
This continued from my childhood as I had to always keep up with dominating my surroundings, I was always after the first position, always wanted to be the best in class until one day I realized I was creating enmity with my act of domination, I was making my fellow classmates feel oppressed, intimated and it was like I was taking their freedom away from them...
I started loosing my close friends because they now saw me as a someone filled with pride and also an oppressor and one day, my class teacher called and explained the depth of domination to me and that was how I slowly started walking in the right direction...
Whenever questions are being asked in class, I try to chill out before answering, I waited to be the third before answering and I even decided to ask my peers the answer even when I knew it just because I wanted them to have freedom and for them to be outspoken too, them telling me the answer brings them immense joy and I really appreciated them, I started gaining their trust and friendship once again...
In no time all the people who felt oppressed by my dominating spirit started feeling confident and outspoken, I started holding them in my hands showing them the part on how we are to dominate the world together and still yet I was still the one seen as a leader but I had my friends with me because now we have decided to dominate together without making anyone feel left out, oppressed, intimidated or chained...
I was now like a mentor and a leader to them back then, we shared knowledge and ideas together from time to time, their voice was heard and they were given the opportunity to lead themselves too and I realized domination is more fun with people alongside you not with people beneath you and that was how I flourished throughout school...
Not everyone also loved the idea of dominating together but I expected it to be that way since humans can not be fully satisfied but I made sure I dominated in peers and crowds and not in singleness and at last it lead to happiness, we tried our best to take everyone down that path but not all were willing to follow us but I later understood the depth of DOMINATION...
DEALING WITH DOMINATION...
I won't lie it was hard changing my ways at first because I have always taught myself that taking over the world alone is my goal but along the way I got some senses and much more understanding on how domination works...
It became easier and sweeter when I had more people alongside me to take over the world together, it was no longer a single man's decision/goal, it was now a collective goal and decision...
I decided to dominate alongside the people by working hand in hand together with them, allowing them to share and voice out their opinions and always supporting their views and perspectives, this lead to all round freedom and happiness for both me and my Co-dominators...
Doing this brought us closer together as our bond kept on getting stronger and soon we started dominating together and it was better when I had more people to do it with than when I was still a lone dominator which caused enmity and intimidation...
To everyone we dominated collectively and I preferred to be seen as a leader than a boss and this strengthened our bond the more...
Ohhh yeah domination depends on it source, your reason for domination might be because you don't want to be a weakling anymore thus you aspire to take control of your environment by dominating in all form, all one need is the wright insight and also respecting the opinion and ideas of others while dominating...
I will be willing to submit to a collective domination, one that is similar to the one I had in school and that means a domination where my views, perspective and opinion matters to not just everyone but to our leader also...
In summary, I have just shared my personal experience with the topic domination and that includes what I faced through on my journey while taking over my environment and my lessons at the end of that same journey...
Never forget that respecting and acknowledging the views, opinions and perspectives of the majority is what will lead to acceptance in all form, rather than becoming a ruler, choose to be seen as a loving leader who carries along his followers in all that he or she does which is always for their wellbeing...
NB: A leader in this regard is someone who carries along his people with him or her on every decision he or she is making since it concerns their wellbeing and growth...
THANKS FOR READING....