Every story has a beginning, middle and the end. It needs to be that way, sometimes the end too late, Sometimes it's too early. It ain't about the beginning or end at all, it's always about the existence. Existence isn't about name, fame or money or something. It's all about one feels about himself.
The success stories or the other small things we think as success never gonna create no reality. One thing is sure that, it ain't about living with the one you love or achieving higher levels of income. It's always about the one's own control he has of himself.
The control is the thing we lose through our journey, the control of our emotion and overreactions. It's always there, sometimes the control loses at the tiny situations. Some other times it's about the big things. The control is not some kind of attitude of showing that "I can bear this".
It's the control of the inner state, the control over emotions. It ain't a thing that can be achieved by some kind of practice or anything, it's just the simple state one have for himself. The state one goes back when surrounded by problems. That state needed to be strong, so it's about building. Sometimes it could be built in seconds.
When the right understanding comes, it's the time to achieve the control. Then the possibility of seeing things as good, bad or happy or sad will be gone. It's gonna be some another usual event which leads to one another.
Everything happening around are just events, there is a chance that we could be either part of it or not. Being part is not at all about anything, of there is a space to be part of it is always a good thing. Cause there will be a day one must need to be part of it.
It's like those sunny climates from childhood, everything feels like a game to be played. Nothing to look after or taken care of. The word responsibility has no dimensions. Just the game, days passed and the game changed. But it's still those sunny climates sharing different emotion.