Hey everyone. I hope you are well by the mercy of Allah .
I woke up and thought I always wrote fantasy stories. But our real life and fantasy life are not the same. So today I'm trying to write something about my real life story. I don't like anyone interfering in my life. Yes, I take advice from friends and other people. If their advice is good for me , I try to follow their advice .
But I will never tolerate anyone being advised to interfere in my life. Sometimes my friends interfered with my personal life. at that time I felt very bad . First, I wouldn't say anything to them. I wanted to know what they could say about me. I noticed that they were constantly interfering in my life. I couldn't bear it so I stopped talking to them. I know I don't have much knowledge, but I understand they're not my real friends. I don't think I've hurt anyone. So why are they doing this to me? My family members never asked me to change my behavior.
Rather, they have always supported me and many of people interfere with my work. That's why I don't talk to anyone except my family members. Many people are not satisfied with my behavior. But I have nothing to do. I did it for my own peace. Eventually our group broke up, they were all still together, but I just moved away from them. They never tried to understand me, I don't think I deserved their friendship. So they treated me like that.
I share everything with my sister so I thought I would ask her what should I do in this situation? But I couldn't tell her anything. I knew it she would be very worried if she heard this. But one day my sister called me heard my voice and asked me are you upset? I couldn't hide anything from her. I told her everything and then she told me why would you change yourself for someone else?And also ask me -Has anyone ever change themselves for you? I said , No, I never like to interfere in anyone's life.
Then I realized for myself that there are many people in the world who live together, but one person's opinion is different from another's. So I started talking to everyone again. They never compare me to others but they help me. A few months later my old friends tried to talk to me. I understand very well that their mindset has not changed yet. It is not possible for me to continue our friendship .
I will do what I like.
I can't change myself for you. write . Today there are some reason to write this. Yes, everyone has the right to live as they wish. So Don't interfere other life.