I try as much as possible to be myself and never allow what i do not have to be disturbing me unnecessary on how i could get it, because putting your mind into what you do not have can also bring inferior feelings, one thing i know for sure is being satisfied and never look too much big above myself in what i do not have, but if i ever do, i would put such liking with dreaming and working towards for achievement.
When you allowed what you do not have to be what you like the most, just know they is a problem there, because you are allowing yourself to be disturb and to be unhappy, normally, nothing is wrong if you admired pretty things, because pretty thing or good things are always admired but that alone should not be put into play, as you have found it precious, you should also make sure your precious time in looking for ways to have it on your own, and that would be done through no other way than, making plans, keeping your savings to acquire the possession.
No man can stay without liking, at some point our likings for things are what keeps us Happy, but that our likings can also be a problem to us, If we put too much of ourselves and do not control our likings, to get to where it didn't have to reach.
I once remember the day i think too much, my face was so bitter due to the things i have on my mind, it really shows on my face and going to the nearby shop to buy something, i hear one of the people who also came there to buy something, telling me "Young Man why is your face so tight" to me, i didn't even notice that what is on my mind is reflecting on my face, i told him "is hard to tell" because at times we may wish to express what is in our heart but at times it is hard to tell, and the man said, "no matter what you are going through, too much thinking would not solved it, rather device an avenue and work towards getting that thing that is disturbing you".
He spoke so straight to my heart, like he knew what was in my heart, honestly, his words heals me a lot and i was happy for his kind words, i told him Thank you, because at that moment, such words of positivity was what i was looking for, then he gave it to me and the solutions to my challenges was derived.