I listened to some beautiful songs today. I haven’t had a good day for a while now but today, I had a good day and I listened to some songs to boost my mood. I actually had a stressful day but the stress was worth it and today, I reconciled with my man.
For some weeks now, my love life hasn’t been stable. At some point, it felt like I was no longer in a relationship because my man and I barely talk and even if we want to do, we will end it up with an argument and to avoid that, we didn’t just talk at all until today.
I have been hoping to have a deep conversation with him for days but that happened today. I greeted him the usual “Good morning baby” and he responded well. One thing led to the other and he revealed to me that I am always nagging.
To me, I only complain about the things that I do not like about our relationship but to him, I’m nagging. I think one of the things we lack is proper communication and understanding of ourselves.
I listened to this at first. To be very honest, today is the first time when my boyfriend is going to complain about my attitude. Many times, he decides not to talk and I don’t like that. With such attitude, I wouldn’t be able to know if he’s cool with it or not.
This made me reflect on my past relationships. I noticed that most of the guys I have dated end up airing and ignoring me. It’s sad that they usually do not tell me why they are doing that to me and that gives me the thought all the time that most men of nowadays are wicked.
I’m just happy about the complaints that he made. My pas boyfriends never made me know that my naggy behavior is very bad and I’ve been left in the dark for days but I’m glad that he called my attention to it.
I actually felt like texting one of my exes to know if my naggy behavior is really tiring but at the same time, I didn’t want to open healed wounds so I let that be. To save my relationship, I decided to plead with my boyfriend so things can go back to normal just as they were before.
Finally, my relationship is working well again. I remember those days when we were having those arguments. Something kept telling me that it was just a phase and we are surely going to scale through and look at us, we’re happy again.
I know challenges will happen again but I hope that we continue to scale through just as we did now.
I know that my man and I are not perfect but for now, we’re perfect again. I’m happy about it and the most important thing is that my naggy attitude didn’t lead to a heartbreak this time.