Holding a grudge is when you harbor anger, bitterness, resentment, or other negative feelings long after someone has done something to hurt you. Usually, it's in response to something that's already occurred, other times a grudge may develop after simply perceiving that someone is against you or means you harm—whether or not they actually do. Grudges also often feature persistent rumination about the person and/or incident at the center of your ill-will.
How long can one hold grudge?
What's the best possible way to resolve it?
Do you think bringing it to the public ears will make you feel fine?
It's just right to know how to appropriate the thin line between tender heartedness and wickedness in life in some cases of human living, if you are too forgiving you won't make it to live well in some part of this world ,the world is wicked so the wisdom of a faithful living is essential, that's why it's okay to be a good cultist (a principle based person) with strong character.
Little things really matter to suffer impunity while some seemingly obvious wrongs might be waved if they carry less offensive weight especially when they are perpetuated by those in power who has authority to ovaride certain judgements which mint lead to grievance before graduating to grudge.
If someone had wronged you at a time, and without any iota of doubt it was intentional and unrepentant, on another date, if such wrong were to repeat itself again even if not to you both to another person by this same folk, would you let go off the wicked and offensive act or ommision of that porous individual? I suppose your answer is a No. That's is where sweet revenge is usually served since the situation at the moment doesn't actually relates to one directly but base on previous grievances one can execute judgements without being penalize. While dealing with that person(s) in a manner well deserved be seen as wickedness on the part of the oppressed or spectators who never new the origin of he matter on ground ? I suppose you will say NO too, that two wrongs don't make it right.
Hence without mincing words, it's legitimately right to be mean sometimes and that won't be tagged as wickedness but KARMA.
It's really a matter of the motive and reason behind the individual's act or ommision, the term revenge literally means Self Defense.
You might not be able to live another moment if you fail to revenge yourself off the impunity of your adversary.
By implication, there is a time you must avenge yourself and there are instances one would prolly let go and let posterity serve the vengeance.
In summation , Wisdom is profitable to direct.
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