A Man and a woman just got married and on the night of the wedding when everything is expected to happen, both have been patiently waiting for this day when they will enjoy sex together, sadly something happened.
On penetration there was an unbearable pain not as a result of the woman being a virgin but as a result of vaginismus
This situation is just a thing of mind.
What is vaginismus?
This is a situation where the vaginal muscles tightened during penetration out if fear,and the woman seems not to have control over it even if shes not a virgin.
This situation is faced by a good number of women and some have refused to speak while some have undergone surgery and different types of treatment just to see if there will be changes.
What are some signs of this situation?
Majorly is the tighten of the virgina and the woman feels like something is burning her private part.
There is a lot of struggle and fight during penetration.
Thos are the common sign of this situation.
Causes of vaginismus
- Some causes of vaginismus includes a very bad first sexual experience.
- If there is an unpleasant medical examination
- Some religious teaching resulting to believing sex is shameful or wrong
- And lastly if there is painful medical condition, like thrush.
Solution to vaginismus.
This is an important issue because most times this condition is misunderstood and so many ladies went to a wrong doctor and sometimes they will end up doing a wrong surgery.
But this is something if understood can be handled by some therapist, like the Psychosexual therapist who will help such fellow have a change of mind on sex.
The person is adviced to get into Relaxation techniques like breathing down , doing some exercise that will help to relax the vagina muscles.
The person can also be advised to do Pelvic floor exercises thereby engaging those muscles and taking a complete control.
The person might also be adviced on using a Vaginal trainers to help her learn how to insert something in her vagina.
Experience has shown that vaginismus has broken so many homes especially those who do not know is all about, some has been passing through emotional pain because they don't understand life again.
Conclusion
In all it is very important that you meet with a specialized therapist, listen to the experience of others and follow the directions from the therapist.
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